ok, this girl who i met in middle school became my best friend. we have gone out16 times. we would go out and then break up because of "nerves" (jr.high) we became best friends. right before i moved we went out, and it turned out really well, but then i moved. now with the first kiss stuff, she had a "dream" that i showed up at her door with roses on her birthday, and i did, but nothing happened bc her neighbors were watching..and we were nervous. back to the point, we both said that we loved each other, first love and best friends.she and i both promised that would would wait to kiss anybody untill i came back in may to visit, since afterall we were in love. now, shes going out with this new kid that just moved to their school. he told me and my friend that he dated a bi girl and made out with her. when i told the girl that she said i was just being jealous, as shes crying on the phone. shes talking about kissing him and going back on her word, like im non existent. advice to do?
2007-02-10 03:22:25 · 11 answers · asked by ... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she called and left a voicemail and said that i was just being a drama queen...this isnt the same girl that i knew...what to do?
2007-02-10 03:24:42 · update #1
Enjoy the memories and move on. Long distance relationships rarely work out......Become something great and let her see what she missed out on. I went through something similar. I married a wonderful person and she married a jerk. We keep in touch. She often writes about wondering what might have been. It feels pretty good.
2007-02-10 03:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by HiphopAnonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry foo
but this b***h is now dating someone else?!?!?
FOOO!!! u didn't even kiss her... i know this may sound hard & such.... but u can't really say it's over.... when it never really began.... she said she LOVEDL U right? so y is she with someone else now? hmm? and she did go back on her word.... i say unfortunately IF U STILL WANT TO , keep her as a friend and hold it at that.... IF U DON'T.... then obviousl u've already moved.... so it's not like it would be hard to keep away from her....
but here's another factor..... 1 that i've been caught up in 4 about eight months now....... do u still love her? IF U DO u now have 3 options instead of just 2..... the third and last one is that u wait 4 her 2 break up with him... then u make your move... keep her as a good friend in the meantime...
good luck to you!
2007-02-10 03:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her! Long distance relationships rarely work out. Start dating someone. If you and this girl are really meant to be together, it will happen someday, but probably not until you're both adults! Life is just too short to stress over the situation at this point in your life. Have some fun!
2007-02-10 03:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are a little too young to be this serious. I know it feels like it's true love, but this is too much too soon-waayy too intense for a pre-teen/early-teen relationship. You need to take a break from relationships for a while or try your hand at playing the field. Either way, slow it down.
2007-02-10 03:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, she called you a drama queen? haha.
anyhow, don't take that from her. it's time to move on. you're young, healthy and obviously a nice person... frankly you deserve better. the best revenge is always moving on with your life and finding happiness. There will be other guys along the way, better looking and sweeter.
2007-02-10 03:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and let her know you value her friendship but you realize now what you had was puppy love and you are moving on to find
THE GIRL and she should move on to find THE GUY
Let her know you still you still want to continueher friendship
2007-02-10 03:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well man she goot over you it was a little crush not really that big of an deal she was your frist and youll always wonder what if but the truth is she has forgotten alll about you so find someone at you new school and just kiss her youll feel free
2007-02-10 03:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Corey G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u needa forget her and find some one eles shes moved on shes with another guy while ur over there waiting for her. u should just move on
2007-02-10 03:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just for get about her. she has moved on then you should too. i guess she really didnt love you then b/c then she would have waited for you to come back. trust me i waz in this situation too
2007-02-10 03:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Varsity girl!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just forget about her. I dated this one chick in middle school... it didnt turn out that hot... you will regret it man,
2007-02-10 03:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by liltexan9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋