I have known my guy since high school but we had been out of touch for close to 12 years. We have only been dating for a bit over two months. I was married in the 12 years we had'nt seen each other. We do not live together he has never been married, so he don't get why I always want to be around him or talk to him daily. What can I do to give his space but still feel connected?
2007-02-10 03:13:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not married any more.
2007-02-10 03:44:34 · update #1
I'm going through a similar situation right now, but I'll tell you the advice that I'm trying for myself. He obviously likes you and wants to be around you but is not used to having someone around constantly. You've only been dating for two months (which is not a long time) and need to let things happen when they happen. Find other things to do, go out with friends, go to the gym, etc, so that your not constantly sitting there waiting for him to call you. This will make you a stronger person and more independent, and it'll make him want to be around you more because he knows he can't just be there when he feel's like it.
2007-02-10 03:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying too hard. stop calling him and stop trying to be around him.Did you ever hear the expression " a man chases a girl until she catches him"
limit your calls to maybe once a wek just to keep in touch and then don't make them long coversation. You have to make him miss you. miss you enough he will call you.
When you do call him tell him" you know he is busy so you won't take up too much of his time and then tell him you missed
his FRIENDSHIP!!!!!!
2007-02-10 11:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is you have a serious sitdown conversation with him. Talk about what you want in the relationship and then let him tell you what he wants. Be open and honest. I hope this has helped. Take care.
2007-02-10 11:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Christina A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd limit how much you talk to/hang out with him. if you try to hang out with him too much, he'll feel smothered, but you also want to let him know that you're interested still. work on rebuilding the friendship and see where that leads you.
2007-02-10 11:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you make other relation, if you married?
2007-02-10 11:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋