The guys (3, 1 was Sr. prom date) that my GF (24) dated in the past will contact her once in a while. She knew them before me, but, I always tell her how much it bothers me. She said they are just friends and that she doesn't like them any more. But how would she know if these guys don't like her? I told her once you dated or kissed your friends, it's no longer a platonic friendship. And they no longer view you as just a "friend." It's like breaking-the-ice, physically. She disagree and kept saying that was in the past and she met them before me and it's not right to ignore them as friends. We have many arguments over this, but she won't promise me that she will not go hang out with them. I guess it's good that she is telling me the truth because she doesn't want to lose them as friends. But, she can't predict the future. As long as there is a opportunity for the other guys to invite her out, then I think they will make a move on her. What do you think?
2007-02-10 02:57:33 · 10 answers · asked by myestate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's a dirty stank s l u t and is gong to give you the clap!
2007-02-10 03:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by rabbit0102030 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it is VERY MUCH POSSIBLE, for some people to choose to end a relationship, and walk away FRIENDS.
That depends on the way a relationship Ends, and how mature the people are.
That doesn't mean permanent booty call, Or whore. Its life! Its the people who are unable to end a relationship in a respectful Way y that can not understand that just because two people can see that they dont want to spend their lives as a couple, but enjoy frinndship. I Dont see where the insecurity comes from.?
Suppose a child were4 involved. would you feel ok with it for here to be in contact with the other parent, even though it is an ex?
Prepare your self for life. How many relationships havve you been in? Did they end in a good or bad way?
Reconsider, your own past. If anyoone your ever dated is unwilling to speak to you-maybe that should be a red flag!
2007-02-10 03:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her frankly that if u do the same as her (hangin out with or still keep in touch with your ex-date girls as an old friend way),what does she think about this? does she agree or disagree?
if she agree,well she's quite fair enough with u.
so it means that she trust u that u will not break a line of honest. so u should the same in return that give her your trust.
and tell her that u trust her and believe that she will never break your heart.
but if she disagree. so ask her the reason that why she disagree.
then tell her that u feel the same when she hanging out or keeping in touch with her ex-date guys.
then tell her again to stop those all relationship with the ex.
but if she disagree with u. and think that only her can do that. so she's selfish girl.
leave her is the final way.
2007-02-10 03:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by kikk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 06:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by pfarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should respect the fact that it bothers you, ask her how would she feel if she was in your position?.... when you are in a relationship you need to understand that now you are committed to that person and you owe them respect and if you dont want to respect them than it would be better to just be single....tell her she needs to respect you like she wants you to respect her because if she wont respect you over something like that than she probably never will respect you.
2007-02-10 03:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by GotAnswers? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u heard of if u love someone set them free if they come back they r urs . ur taking too much load on this which im sure is affecting u r relationship. be fearless if she is meant 4 u she will be urs only otherwise it was not meant to be also u r losing ur self respect in the process hope i helped best of luck
2007-02-10 03:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by rupali k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right!!
If she can't invite you along when she goes around these friends then you just need to leave her alone cause you will never trust her and it will just lead to the two of you breaking up anyway.
2007-02-10 03:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, do you ever sound insecure. either you believe her or you don't. she's being honest and not talking to them behind your back. get over it! she can be friends and nothing more no matter what their previous relationship was.
2007-02-10 03:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think someone has a booty call permanently programmed in his phone. (Your girls number)...
Sorry man...sounds like a sad state of affairs....no pun intended...
2007-02-10 03:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's a whore.
2007-02-10 03:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by leonard_leroy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋