a guy and girl have sex. the guy is not a virgin, but the girl is. the guy knows beforehand that the girl is a virgin, but he doesnt believe her. the first time they have sex he doesn't talk much, but he asks her if she's ever been on top. after they have sex he lays with her the entire night. the second time they have sex he says "you said you were a virgin right," but he does remember having sex the other night so idk why he asked that. he constantly asks her if she's alright the second time and tells her to tell him when to stop and when it hurts.
1. why did he ask her "you said you were a virgin right?"
2. and why was the first time and second time so different from eachother
2007-02-10 02:57:04 · 15 answers · asked by jennifer a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats so sweet. he just wants to make sure your comfertable. the first time girls have sex it hurts like madness. he was just makeing sure you ere ook. he kept asking the second time because he realized it might not b as pleasuable to you so the second time he ewanted it to b for you not him. the first time was for him, and the second time was for you.
2007-02-10 03:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen your dealing w/a young male here not to much to get into I'm figuring all he's doing is being immature. He's saying he doesnt believe you because he doesnt want to deal with the the way he should if he were a worth while person, which would mean he really shouldnt be taking your virginity if he doesnt care about you or have plans to keep in a relationship with you, or act like a man and be considerate as far as hurting you or working with you at your first experiences with sex, also as he may not be a virgin he myaswell be he's a beginner I dont care if he has 20 times at his age he doesnt know much certainly not about pleasing a woman, whatever the main gig here is he doesnt want to be responsible and you being the little inexperiences girl that he is counting on you to be to get his kicks only helps he remain this way, demand your respect unless your just trying to get it over with, again whatever Kim
2007-02-10 11:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he realized after he did it the first time that you were a virgin. so then the second time you still wouldnt be used to it (sex) and so he'll be concerned about hurting you because of it. it means he probably feels bad about the first time, and not believing you and stuff.
2007-02-10 11:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a school project, or, are you talking about yourself in the 3rd person? P.S. Everything seems to be different after sex. If the person having sex is confused, maybe they need to stop for awhile.
2007-02-10 11:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by jessiekarma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something strange here.... I have heard this same question a couple of other times. Am I going crazy? Or does this same senario happen to all virgins the first time?
2007-02-10 11:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, this a similar to the question i answered couple of minutes ago.......
why is there an issue of virginity??? anatomically speaking, a hymen by definition is a fold of mucous membrane partly closing the orifice of the vagina. and mind you, to some girls this would easily break or other gurls have elastic ones....
you really need to get spill more facts on this.... seems like you're giving a situation wherein you are involved in this....
2007-02-10 11:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this same question 19 times now. You know the answer.
2007-02-10 11:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like this girl needs to stop having sex!!! i mean the guy cleary is an idiot and just wants a girl to have sex with him!
2007-02-10 11:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
makes no sense to me...i just hope he really cares about the girl and she did not give her virginity up to someone that does not care about her.....
2007-02-10 11:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he had nothing else to say but he had to say some words to hide his discomfiture at the time! he wanted the gril to know that he was relax !
2007-02-10 11:17:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋