im 14 five months till my 15 b-day and i dont know if i should have had a bf?
2007-02-10 02:48:21 · 21 answers · asked by Kay E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not a bad thing
its actually a good thing and tells me that you have a good head most girls around your age have had several bfs and lots of sex keep your head in the books or whatever you are doing and when you are ready to date you will school and an education is more important then boys
2007-02-10 02:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kay,
It's not a numbers game. Some of these really young havers-of-boyfriends end up doing really stupid life-altering things with those boyfriends.
I worry when I see young ladies saying "I need a boyfriend" (yes, I know you're not saying that). Don't settle. Just do your thing and it'll happen. If you worry about it being bad that you haven't had one, you're liable to accept a relationship you might otherwise have let pass.
Short version: This says nothing about you. You will be fine. Promise.
Bill
Former teenager
Former boyfriend
2007-02-10 11:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad that you have never had a boyfriend! You are still young, and well, exactly what are you going to do with this guy, once you have had him. You will hang out wiht your friends, go to the movies, go get a bite to eat, and then one of your parents will pick you up. Nothing really different than what you are doing now, right? Don't stress about it, just have fun with your young years!
2007-02-10 10:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not really cuz I'm like 13 and I don't hate boys but I've been in a couple relationships and they havn't been the best boys so wait 4 a while so u don't get ur heart ripped out and stepped on about 3 times ok!
2007-02-10 10:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. Never go out and get a boyfriend as an accessory. Having a guy in your life is amazing, but only when you find someone great enough that you want HIM to be your boyfriend, not just anyone
2007-02-10 10:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no special time-line for having a boyfriend. Some girls wait much longer to have a boyfriend.
Having a boyfriend can be fun but that's not a guarantee. Take your time & it'll happen.
2007-02-10 10:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. im 15 and i have had expirences with boyfriends and people who have them at this age just have a lot of stress. being single is a great thing. but if you really want one, the great advice to give you is to not worry about it. dont chase after a guy to be your boyfriend. let him come to you. just be happy with your friends at this pont until you meet someone amazing. good luck
2007-02-10 10:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im almost 15 too and haven't had a bf...dont sweat it. i get the stress or peer pressure ur feelin, but dont do nething until ur sure of it. hope this helps!!
2007-02-10 10:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by mzsprouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. You are very young,my dear. It is normal to ask yourself such things, but it's OK that you haven't had a boyfriend yet. You will certainly have one or even more. Don't hurry.
2007-02-10 10:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter. if there is no boy that you care enough about then that is fine. if there is a boy you better get up the courage to ask him out. if itss a no, no biggie, atleast you tried instead of standing in the shadow
2007-02-10 10:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋