Who has done it, and was it good or bad?
2007-02-10 02:11:19 · 15 answers · asked by if i only knew 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a mixed bag but in every case the person was different in person than they were through IMs, e-mails and pics. Chemistry is not something that can be gauged until you meet in person.
A few tips that I have learned is always meet in a public place (restaurant, cafe, etc.) and let them know in advance it is for a set period of time, say an hour due to your other social engagements...it is long enough to let you know if you want to see them again or pursue the relationship and if you don't, you already have an out where they won't take it personal because you set it up BEFORE you met them.
Warning sign end it earlier than the hour is if they are abusive to the wait staff or too aggressive. A way not engage/enrage them is to go the bathroom then come back and tell them you got your "monthly visitor" early and the machine in the restroom is broken.
2007-02-10 02:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend online 2 1/2 years ago. I think that was pretty good. It helped that we lived in the same city when we met. I think it might have been harder if we met online and lived far from each other.
I find that a lot of people meet up with those they have met online, as long as you're honest with each other from the begining no matter what happens it could be good. If only you met another friend.
2007-02-10 02:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it... Had a 50/50 split of great people and crazy's. The best thing to do is NEVER meet someone you just met online. Form a report and get to know someone. When things FEEL right, meet them in a PUBLIC place that is safe. Do not move from a public place until you form a personal bond and see they are trustworthy... and NEVER act on someone claiming to be "nice".
2007-02-10 02:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by Vincent C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After I came back from Cuba, I was looking for a brazilian song which played there. So who best ask? A brazilian. :)
Not long after, I started talking to a woman from Sao Paulo State. She wasn't much of help with the music but we started a bond that lasted for 3 years. I met her for the first time in person this past June. While I was there, I was able to enjoy many things with her and be able to learn a few life lessons from her. We agreed that we should part ways but stay as friends. It hurted me badly when we did this but it was all for the better. I was able to travel to Brazil, see much of the country with someone special and enjoy the moments that I dub that God blessed.
Seriously, there are good people out there. It all comes down to who you are and what are your likes. Just be aware that not everyone will be that sweet brazilian lady I met.
Go with peace and goodluck
cheers
2007-02-10 02:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by H Vice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't but my friend has - in fact, that's how she's met most of her boyfriends for the past four years. None have ended well. The last one lived hours away and they only saw each other three times. If you're going to go for online dating, make sure the person lives in your area. Also, make sure you like this person if you decide to pursue him. Some people are so desperate for male attention that they date whoever comes along, which isn't fair to either of you.
2007-02-10 02:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an introduction tool, it's fine. Connect, contact, meet and see if there's anything worth pursuing. Meeting local people in your area. Staying online for months & months, and proclaiming love for a person you'll never meet who lives 8,000 miles away is insane.
2007-02-10 02:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a matter of opinion but, ive done it yes it was a bad experience, i jumped into a relationship i wasnt ready for, it only lasted 3 weeks, and it made me feel bad that it didnt last, even guys have feelings, but like i said its your choice, there are a few decent sites, like the ones listed below, both are free, good luck.
2007-02-10 02:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try meeting guys on online, but it didn't worka few did and things didn't go so great for me. So the best thing to do is maybe you can try it see what happens. Good luck.
2007-02-10 02:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by debbard22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've met all kinds of fun people on here
2007-02-10 02:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband online. went great for me...
thats how we built up our communication lines with one another.
then when we met we never stopped talking to stand there and look at the ground...lol
2007-02-10 02:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋