i met this brazilian guy in my country and he told me he likes me so much. He knew i'm a single parent with 2 kids. Before he went abroad, he promised not to forget me. Three years passed and we still have communication thru phone calls and internet and he told that he really loves me and wants to marry me. The problem is i dont know if i believe him cuz he just tell me those words thru internet.
2007-02-10 01:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by dana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him if he means it to move in with you(or near you if youre not comfortable with that) for a trial period, say a year, and if you get along, get married. if he's not willing to do that then so what if he says he wants to marry you, you cant do it continents apart and tell him that.
2007-02-10 01:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Arraya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a doubt about him then do you really think you should marry him? How well do you know this guy anyway? If you only know him through the internet then by all means don't marry him because many people are not what they seem in real life who contact others over the internet. It would be like marrying someone or some stranger whom you saw on the street for the first time only in this case you don't even know this guy's name or anything about his background. Don't do a stupid thing and something you may well live to regret.
2007-02-10 09:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take what he says not so literally, but just know that someone adores you. I'd be cautious if i were you. Long distance love affairs and on-line affairs rarely work.
I've always been leery when someone tells me they "love me" early. I think it's a sign that they are not truly sure what they want and that they are somewhat insecure. Then again, I'm not necessarily a believer in love at first sight either. I believe in lust at first sight.
Follow your heart. Cuz if you do,whatever the outcome is, you know there was something you had to learn. Right? Good or bad.
2007-02-10 09:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by gnuck gnuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should not believe that crap.How can he go from liking you so much to loving you and wanting to marry you(COME ON!) You guys have never sexually been together(or have you?).Are you American and he's trying to get citizenship? I smell something....................and it smells like bu#@%*$. Don't believe him.You should ask yourself if he is good to bring him in your life and you have children.You should also ask yourself ,do I really know this guy.You should just talk to him on line as something to do when you have nothing else to do.But don't tell him your address.Have you watch "To catch a predator?'' on Dateline?He might be a pervert or a killer.Yeah!That might sound scary but there are freaks out there and he might be one of them.Go find you someone local and forget about that man.How can he love you and he don't 100% know you?Please Please for the sake of your children and yourself ignore him.I hope he doesn't know your home address. If he does you better relocate.
2007-02-10 09:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by qtpie34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way for him to prove himself and that's to visit you, get married, and bring his new family home. Is he going to do that or not?
2007-02-10 09:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jim F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wanted to marry you then he would be over there already
2007-02-10 09:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions are much louder than words - don't believe him - move on
2007-02-10 09:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liar!!!
2007-02-10 09:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋