Ok my boyfriend lives iin another town and goes to another school and i think he might be cheating on me and hes dating me on a bet and i donno if i should break up with him or just ask. I really like him!
2007-02-10 01:17:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if its a guy, he has the right to live his life devoted to you as if he were a slave. if you are a woman, you have the right to be plasured by your man, or anyone else, man or woman with out regaurds to your boyfriend or husband. Why? Because this is the era and world of WOMEN! =)
2007-02-10 01:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by dee 'the harpoon' harper 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Snoop a tad. Email, text messages, mysterious items/clothes at his place that you have no idea how they got there, or lame excuses not to be doing something with you. If these read correct, go upfront and ask. Look for unusual amounts of blinking, figeting, reassurences that he loves you, and hurried awnsers in his response.
If he is cheating, dump the guy!
2007-02-10 09:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by serenityfan76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, just ask him,but it really doesn't matter it's almost a given that he is or may be either thinking about it or has all ready don it. it's the nature of young men and or any man. they think that the "what she doesn't know wont hurt her." method works. with you being in a different town makes it just a little easier. and helps with the excuse, "you were not there and, he just couldn't go alone,"or" shes just a friend." so go a head and ask him and look for the signs of lying.
2007-02-10 09:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, kid...
TALK TO THE BOY!
JUST you two. Strictly. Important relationship conversations must occour between only the two.
Ask him. Express concern. Tell him you care about him. If you're thurough and undistracted, then he will be too, and he won't lie if he is. If he's a cheater, there's nothing to do but dump him and get over him. But if he's not- then be happy and all that!
Good luck!
2007-02-10 09:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he lies,you'll find out.Why would he be dating you on a bet?Don't sell yourself short.In life,your path will cross many others.Why take a deadend path,when there is always so many other ways to go. Have fun.
2007-02-10 09:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by karen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: why are you with him? If you're getting what you want and the rest is just peripheral bullshitt, it doesn't matter. Jealousy is a wasted emotion!
2007-02-10 09:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to go to where he lives and follow him without him knowing about it..
2007-02-10 09:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for the truth...and take him at his word, unless instinct tells you differently......you sound quite young, in school that is.....i would be prudent and give it time....young love is fragile. All my best to you!!!!
\I find that if you take others at their word, you will more than likely be taken at yours.....true in my life anyway.
2007-02-10 09:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like are you in Junior high or what? Dump him and find a boy at your school so you can keep your eye on him.
2007-02-10 09:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in touch with your woman side and do some research and if it comes out that he is cheating drop him like a bad smoking habit and move on... it;s okay to like someone, but if they are not respecting you like you deserve to, trust me you don't want to love a person like that. they will never change. get out while it is easy
2007-02-10 09:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋