I'm with ny gf fro less than a year. We are 8 yrs different. I love her a lots. However, she does not want our relationship to be known to some people, especially her best friend, whom is a guy. That guy is attached and is always msging her to go out. That guy ever ask her to be his gf before but was rejected. However, i don't understand why must he keeping asking my gf out. Nevertheless, my gf did go out with him. We have quarrel many time. That guy gf is a air crew and are always flying. My gf keep insisting she is a 101% genntleman. If that the case, why only certain day he will keep msging my gf to go out? Mentally he had already betry his gf. The problem is, how am I supposed to convince my gf taht he is not that pure as he claim to be. Pls advice
2007-02-10 01:13:23 · 9 answers · asked by just_me_sg1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, this guy obviously has some jealousy issues. what you need to do is to get together with the two of them and talk. as hard as it may be, you need to make it clear to this guy that YOU are going out with her and that's that, and that she and he are only friends. but say it in a way so that your girlfriend won't feel as though she's property to you, because that can be a one-way ticket to being dumped.
2007-02-10 01:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is messing with your g/f on the side they are probably having sex together also you are the only one besides the other guys g/f that is clueless about this, the reason why your g/f don't want your relationship known is because she is having her cake and eating it too kick her a** out of your life and find someone that will be true to you and love you for who you are.
2007-02-10 01:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a professional, but you are being used in a sense because she wants her cake and to eat it too. You need to let her know that this does not fly with you and you're not okay with it. Tell her that she should call you when she's made her decision, and let it go. If she wants to be with you and only you then it's worth fighting for. However, if she wants to continue this relationship with this other guy then cut your losses and move on.
2007-02-10 01:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 06:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you need to take an English class or work on your communication skills. That was impossible to read.
Can't make sense of it, but would love to offer advice.
2007-02-10 01:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to question your gf, not him. she's the one that won't tell him about you. maybe it's because she has a thing for him. he doesn't know about you so he's not doing anything wrong, She is!
2007-02-10 01:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called having her cake and eating it too. She's using both of you.
2007-02-10 01:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could hardly understand what you were trying to ask
2007-02-10 02:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your english is absolutely terrible.
2007-02-10 01:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋