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I am 5'4" and regret using steroids when I was 12-13 years old, because of it I stunted my growth. I saw a growth specialist when I was young and they told me it looked like my growth plates closed prematurely because of steriods, I was only 14 at the time. I wish the Gold's Gym manager that sold me the steroids fries in hell, he went to prison for selling them to members; I hate that guy he stunted my growth.

I am suppose to be 5'9", I think many girls don't want to hook up with me because they think they will have short kids. I am very strong, but women percieve short men can't protect them. At age 15 I was bench pressing 325 lbs. I have been drug free all my adult life, since the age of 14. If I knew as a kid what stunting my growth would do to my dating life, I wouldn't of taken steroids. There is not a day that goes by that I wish I was 12 again so I could fix my mistake.

2007-02-10 01:04:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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there are many shorter girls out therre. youjust have not found the right one yet for you ! Everybody does things in their lifes and regrets then at one point in their lifes ! nobody is perfect!And you want somebody that likes you for who you are !

2007-02-10 01:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1 1

I proably would date someone in your position...
Every body makes mistakes, so you've put your past behind you, and luckily you've learnt from your mistakes, so hats off to you!!!
Differentl girls have different tastes, obviously... some prefer shorter men, others don't. So dont think everyone is put off by you.
"I think many girls don't want to hook up with me because they think they will have short kids" - this statement isn't true - if a girl thinks that, then she has no brains, and you dont need that!!!
Obviously the height/build of your child is determined by genetics, (from you and the mother), not by the steriods you took umpteen years ago... Your stunted growth was NOT because of developmental problems you experienced when you where a foetus in your mothers womb... it occured long after your birth, so that rules out genetics/ family traits, as a cause.
I admire someone like you for regretting your past mistakes, and learning from them... you are obviously concerned about your own well-being, and that, to me, is attractive. So dont worry... ms right is waiting out there for you!!!!
God bless.

2007-02-10 01:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anfieldgirl 2 · 0 1

geeze i wish people werent so shallow
if theres an attraction between two people, then why not give a go regardless of what they did when they were younger
we all do silly things and eventually grow out of them or grow up
I'm sure there is someone out there for you and sure she will come your way
if your a good person with a great personality, love will come your way

2007-02-10 01:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0 0

short in height is not a big deal, but if i was planning on having kids in the future, the steroids might have had a bad effect on your fertility. you need to get that checked out, as well as making sure that you are fine physically.
my hubby is only about 5'4"/5'5", and i'm 5'2". i KNOW my children are probably going to be short.

the most important thing is that you have learned your lesson, and are past it. make sure you are healthy, and find a petite girl who isn't shallow. you'll be fine.

PS.- my hubby might be short, but i feel very confident in his ability to protect me or our future children.

2007-02-10 01:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

well, considering the age difference, i don't think i personally would date you. but a guy that used sterioids and really turned it around? sure.

and i mean, short(ish, I'm 5'3'', yet again female), people are the only people that can wear shirts saying "just another sexy short guy."

2007-02-10 01:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

In case you don't know it,wonderful gifts come in small packages.Any woman who wouldn't date because of your height,probably wouldn't measure up to you.Keep the chin up and keep looking.

2007-02-10 01:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by karen b 2 · 0 0

yes i would.I'm 5'2 five four is not bad trust me. from the sounds of it you are probable to old for me, i pray God will help you find that it really doesn't matter how tall you are.God bless;)

2007-02-10 01:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyed blondie 2 · 0 0

i dont think height is a option when someone likes you they like you for who you are you cant change the past but you can make the future better good luck

2007-02-10 01:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by john t 4 · 0 1

As long as he has lots and lots of money, what do I care what he did to his body when he was a kid? If he is rich, its his obligation to give me his money, not for me to be his nurse lol besides, you live in more denial then us women. you claim you lived drug free yet you admit to using steroids. which is it?

2007-02-10 01:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by dee 'the harpoon' harper 3 · 0 3

thats where google comes in handy

2007-02-10 01:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by ubcool2ic 3 · 0 2

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