Cure for relationship winter blues!?

Question

It's half term and im away on valentines. I called my bf this evening and asked if we could meet. Stuff's been pretty crap between us recently (not like arguing or anything, just not much contact) but i recon it's just a phase. We didn't talk much... Neither of us said anything about valentines. We'll probably meet next weekend and go iceskating or something. We usually get on really well with sparks flying but I always let my bad winter blues get in the way of our happiness. I want to re-ignite the spark but I'm not sure how and valentine's seems to make it worse coz it just adds pressure. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

Suprise him, i don't know how far into your relationship you are but if you are having sexual relations why don't you suprise him as the naked chef?I did it last year and not only did we have a great evening but we had fantastic sex!!
good luck x

Answer 2

it seems to me that you are both avoiding the issue and trying to ignore the fact that you're drifting apart. There still seems to be some life there, though, if you can both be bothered to reignite the spark that attracted you.
Don't let pride get in the way - why not ring him and suggest that you both go out or go away for a few days for some fun. I wouldn't use the word "romantic" at this stage since, clearly, romance is at a stale-mate, use the word "fun" instead which might get his interest. Suggest something you're both interested in ... a film at the cinema then a good meal, or a weekend in an interesting town (like Bath, for example, lots to see and do) - something that gets you both being together and TALKING (very very important, to keep the communication up) and enjoying together the same things like the sights and sounds and experiences.
You have to have things in common, and this will build up a few. Then, if you want, chose your time carefully to suggest that things between you have gone a bit cool - perhaps you're working too hard, winter blues, etc., and make some future plans like a holiday. Don't get all heavy on him but you must make plans together - if you have no future plans, then you don't have a future relationship.
Good luck, do try this, hope it helps.

Answer 3

Winter is not the issue maam. It is the position you put
yourself in, this time of year. Go out, travel, set goals.
MAKE new plans, and take in positive things, and people.
Your life will change, and you will never deal with winter
blues ever again. Trust me, it really works.

Answer 4

I find that snuggling up with a few sirloin steaks, a couple of gallons of ben & jerry's do the trick for me. And to think us women only live with our cats and grow bitter because we don't give men what they want? lol hunny, if the guy dont give you exactly what you want for valentines day, keep the gift and dump him. if he does give you want you want, keep the gift and milk him until hes dry, then dump him :) play the field, your a woman therefore you are instantly entitled to play off guys and use them for all they are worth :)

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Don't force anything. Let the relationship play out. If you're meant to be, then it will work. If you don't think the relationship is working for you, consider moving on.

Answer 7

Its not always the man who can be romantic try arranging something for him as a suprise. he will arreciate it and realise you do really care for him and its winter blues not him making you down. good luck

Answer 8

don't do anything. be a minx