i like my best guy friend and he likes me but not enough to date me because we r really close.. but he is willing to be friends with benefits with me.... should i do it??? its only like making out trust me no sex!!!
2007-02-10 00:43:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i personally think you will just end up with a mess and he isnt worth it if he cant date you he only wants to use u w/ no relationship attachments
2007-02-10 00:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What alot of wise answers. Be best platonic friends. Stop the physical stuff cuz it's going to go farther accidently and ruin the friendship. Everybody else said it better. Actually, I think your best guy friend needs to be given some time off your calendar to cool off.
Then after 2 weeks or so let's see how balanced the friendship is.
2007-02-10 01:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say only making out, no sex, but believe me, HE is gonna want to take it to the next level sooner or later.
I think the whole friends with benefits concept objectifies both the girls AND the guys. It makes sex nothing more than one of the things you do while hanging out with your friends. I personally want sex to have more meaning than that.
2007-02-10 00:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by not yet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no. That would not be friends, but sexual partners. There's a difference. Doesn't like you enough to date you--but enough to screw you! Come on, you know better. If you're thinking that once he's had a taste of your fruit he'll come around--he won't. Sex seals it, it doesn't make it.
2007-02-10 00:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by JazzyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question: is it really worth losing a friend over this? Because he may want more than you're willing to give, and when you say no, he may not want you as a friend anymore,
2007-02-10 01:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Macca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl do not give into that you deserve better Men always want their cake and eat it to. Girl continue to be his freind, do not fall for the bs, becuase if he does not like you enough to date you how he gone like you enough to get benefits.
trust me when it comes to just making out you wll end up putting out, the famous question of them all comes out then.. come on baby can i just put the h%$#@ in. GIRL PLEASE
2007-02-10 00:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't do i mean if he is telling you he likes you but not enough to date you but then again he does wanna do stuff with you he is totally trying to use you!! and you might say now that you wont have sex but doing stuff with him other than sex will lead to sex so you should find yourself a guy likes you enough to be with you and not just try to get some and thats it...a guy will treat you how you allow him to treat you...so make him respect you
2007-02-10 00:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by GotAnswers? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong. Trust me, it breaks your heart when it s over and it ruins your freindship with the guy. be friends with him because if he is your best friedn he will always be there for you if he is not there for you you will miss him terribly and be really sad. Trust me, dont do it.
2007-02-10 00:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, it is easy to get carried away either physically or emotionally! Plus, your friendship will never be the same (platonic) again. It is not something you can undo.
2007-02-10 00:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by incubus760 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are eventually it's going to blow up in your face and one or both of you will end up getting hurt. The question is....Is it worth risking the friendship for?
2007-02-10 00:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by theanswerman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋