my ex bf that i dumped twice says he hates me because i dumped him. do you think he still cares in that way to like me but he`s being hurt and that`s why he`s not saying hello or talking to me just to my friends ???he sends messages for me talking 2 my friends....
2007-02-10 00:12:24 · 16 answers · asked by Crucifixio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES, you can love and hate at the same time. I LOVE to HATE my ex-wife.
2007-02-10 00:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by D.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greetings.
I don't know your ageor his but I must say He needs to grow up.I mean pouting and not talking to you but your friends. How childish even a six year old acts more mature. He's miffed because you dumped him first. If it were the other way around you wouldn't see him for dust. He may be a little hurt but don't count on it he seems needy and is keeping your interest by not talking to you. You need to either take him back and keep him or move on. What is he attatched to string or something like a yo yo. You only dump a person once then it's over not keep doing it. The pooor guy will get dizzy going back and forth he's in he's not. You both need to Mature a bit unless your 12 then neither of you are acting mature enough to have any kind of semi- serious boy girl relationship. Neither of you are ready. So just chill with your friends and wait until you are same for him.
Good luck ciao
2007-02-10 08:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg yes. My ex boyfriend and I have a love hate relationship. Some days we are so nice to each other and it is like how it was before we were going out and there are others where we hate each other and I'm so glad I dumped him. It's that combo of attraction that got us together in the first place and what broke us up. Sounds like you have a love hate relationship too and from experience, if u go out again u will break up over and over again. So jus stay friends...and at the moment give him some time. Soon he'll be crawling back to u:)
2007-02-10 08:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The opposite of love is indifference, not hate.
Now, if you have dumped him twice, stay the heck away from him and let him go on with his life.
2007-02-10 08:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we all can do that. But in time both fade away. They don't last too long , in time we can forget these feelings and the person we hated ot loved doesn't metter too much. But its still there in a corner of our mind.
2007-02-10 08:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a fine line between love and like. He probably just dislikes you right now because he is hurt. Maybe if he does really love you he doesnt think he is strong enough to be around you right now. Dont worry about it, give him time.
2007-02-10 08:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by CountryGirlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can hate only when u had loved that person
its better for u to forget him
or else in future ur past will trouble you
love hurts when u give upon sum1......
it hurts more when sum1 gives upon u......
but luv hurts the most when the 2 of u keep holdin on, then destiny suddenly gives up!
2007-02-10 08:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by celestial_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most definately still cares for you, but he just resents you because you dumped him. He's mad because he loved or cared for you deeply and you just told him that things are off.
2007-02-10 08:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There's a thin line between love and hate," however if you care about him, give him his space. He's trying to move on. That's what you want, right? You seem to have enough friends. Stop sweatin' him and let him heal. Distance, distance!
2007-02-10 08:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by JazzyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love my bf and sometimes i think i hate him i get so upset at things he oes but i guess thats what love is haha cant be perfect
2007-02-10 09:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋