I told a girl friend of many years that I like her a whole lot. I said I could not date, but I am considering asking her out in the future. She said she wanted to remain friends, ans she thought we really have a lot of fun together. She also wanted our friendship to grow to which I said my feelings might grow. At first, she was hesitant then we both started growing as friends. Our friendship grew until we were very close. Now, she knows so much about me that she wants to know the secret desires of my heart. We have the most intimate conversations between us. I have no such conversations with any other girls.
2007-02-10 00:05:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say it's time for you to take things to the next level. This means you'll have to risk losing her as a friend if she's not interested in dating you but that's just a risk you'll have to take. Go for it and good luck!
2007-02-10 00:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a pickle now, the two of you are ready to be in a relationship, but you have a great/special friendship. if for some reason being together in a relationship doesn't work out, you probably won't get that friendship back. So how much do you value that friendship should determine if you even ask her out in the future. that's something you should worry about first before her reaction...
2007-02-10 08:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by chris_saiyan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no i think perhaps if you have flirted in their a bit then she wants you bad but other whys she is looking for that perfect guy friend every girl wants and you no if she is that guy friend(like in movies) they usually end up going out dont ruin the friend ship let her make the first move or .......ask her are you crushing on me if she says no laugh and go oh good for a second you scared
sweet as good luck
2007-02-10 08:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to take it slowly as you guys are friends. She probably doesn't want to take it too fast at the risk of ruining a perfectly good friendship.
2007-02-10 08:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by rainbowstylin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl totally digs u. Anytime u have an awkward moment, seize it and don't let go. I've similar situation with a girl for past three years. I missed few awkward moments n now she is little distant. don't let this happen to u if u love her
2007-02-10 08:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KISS HER! :)
Stuff like this makes me smile.... the butterfly feeling in your tummy when you are feeling a lot of lovin' towards someone and you haven't kissed them but you want to.
2007-02-10 08:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she give you any signs that she feels the same and as she got a boyfriend. maybe you should mention how you feel again to see if her feelings are any different now
Good luck
2007-02-10 08:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends make the best lovers, so I think you're on the right track.
2007-02-10 08:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts when u give upon sum1......
it hurts more when sum1 gives upon u......
but luv hurts the most when the 2 of u keep holdin on, then destiny suddenly gives up!
b4 it happens to u. open ur heart.
2007-02-10 08:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by celestial_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to be closer!
2007-02-10 08:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋