I have been going out with my gf for a long time now but i still feel that i am embaressin her when i go up and grind with her - any tips?
2007-02-09 23:57:22 · 13 answers · asked by Interesteduser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry! I meant grinding as in dancing! - Not in any other way! It's back in and its the type of dancing that she enjoys on the dance floor so i try but i just feel as if i am embaressing her
2007-02-10 00:04:35 · update #1
yesss try and treat her like a loving girlfreind..otherwise you will be asking why am i a sad lonely man..
2007-02-10 00:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by a.c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get up and grind with her then its as simple as that, there is nothing worse than a fella that cant dance, im not trying to be horrible but its what i would tell a friend if they asked me the same question
2007-02-10 00:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by ✿Regina Felangie✿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't fel comfortable with you grinding against her.
She may feel embarrased at being sexual.
WHispering NICE assuring things in her ear helps to.
You can sort this out by before you're going to grind with her rub your hands up (or down) her arms and press your chest against her back.
DO NOT grind with her yet, in fact she will start grinding first if you wait enough, she needs to be assured that she's feeling sexy.
Don't wrap your arms around her waist as this will restrict her from moving and she'll feel trapped just use your hands on her arms then lead them up to her shoulders and rub them down her back.
:)
2007-02-10 00:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hold her tight from behind and go with the flow, grinding is great to feel the vibe between 2 people just relax abd follow her lead.
2007-02-10 01:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by emzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about on the dance floor...that dance has probably been out of style for 20 years...but just in case it's back....close your eyes and simulate making love to do it correctly.
2007-02-10 00:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop your hips put one leg in between hers put one arm around her waist and swivel your hips in a small circle to the beat of the music DON'T thrust against her or she will think you're trying to shag her leg lol good luck
2007-02-10 00:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do things that embarrass you. Grind what, your teeth or hips. Be more clear.
2007-02-10 00:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Baw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)get Drunk
2)Do what feels natural
3)repeat step 1.
works for me.Or:
1)get her drunk.
that is all.
2007-02-10 00:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a few lessons. If you learn to do it properly, you won't embarass her any more
2007-02-10 00:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by amazed_lab_rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her outright if she feels embarrassed. maybe you can both practice together at home.
2007-02-10 00:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by pritty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋