I am 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend,have never kissed anyone,and have never had sex. This isn't because i don't want to but because i'm scared that if i approach anyone i will be rejected.I am a good looking girl but i am shy when it comes to guys.I have had guys ask me for my number and other guys that are interested but i'm scared of never finding someone that i like and that likes me. is there something wrong with me?
2007-02-09 23:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course not --- you are expressing the fears that everyone has --- it comes down to making yourself vulnerable --- if you dont take a chance you will always be wondering --- next time a guy asks for your number and you would like to get to know him give him your mobile number and see what happens --- you will be hurt at some point and you will find such joy that the hurt is forgotten --- best wishes
2007-02-10 01:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing wrong with you is a lack of confidence! You are still a very young girl and someone will come into your life that you can trust and are comfortable around. Don't push it. Relax and try to gain some confidence. The next time a guy asks for your number.....give it to him if you are interested. The only way to build your self esteem and confidence is to get out there and go on a date. After the first one, you will be more at ease. When the right guy comes along, you will know because you will feel diferently around him. Take care of yourself and don't let anyone tell you that you are wierd. You are a respectable young lady who is waiting for the right time. Be proud of who you are.
2007-02-10 07:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, you're just a little shy. Sex isn't something to be had if you don't want to. I'm one of the only people in my age that hasn't had a kiss/boyfriend yet. When there is a new guy around, you can be anyone you want to be! If guys have asked you for your number and they're interested, you can try being friends with them for a bit, and you might like them! You never know...
Otherwise try:
http://www.links2love.com
2007-02-10 07:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by volume.10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your obviously very cautious which can be a good thing. you dont seem to have self esteem issues because you admit that you are a good looking girl. maybe get some friends to set you up on double dates so you can get used to dating and once your confidence builds go out and try dating by your own choice... good luck
2007-02-10 07:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by pritty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your just shy. i'm 22 now and was exactly the same, so i went on a dating site and met a lovely girl, we've been together for 6 months now! maybe you should try the same it allows you to get to know someone before you meet.
2007-02-10 07:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Alan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....if you never go out with anyone, you will never find someone that you like....can't win the lotto without buying a ticket if you get my drift!!!! Good luck
2007-02-10 07:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2007-02-10 08:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by polli_d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! You are doing great! All you need now is courage!
2007-02-10 07:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you.
2007-02-10 07:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋