my problem is that i am seventeen n i hv d hottest bf around. i luv him too but he forces me to have sex with him very often and makes me do all sorts of erotic stuff!! Should i break up?? im fed up but i dont wanna break up HELP
2007-02-09 23:42:52 · 11 answers · asked by maggie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a guy who forces u to do things u dont wanna do? - if u cant take it or refuse to give in to his demands, its time to leave him.
especially when it comes to sex. if u dont wanna do it, no one can force u to. u dont wanna look back and think about how u once were forced to have sex with a guy u didn't want to have sex with. its a very disgusting and mentally disturbing thought.
get out as soon as u can. i promise u'll find someone else who'd respect you, and give you what u want. just make sure u leave him.
2007-02-09 23:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him so much and don't wont to break up with him u should at least let him know that u don't enjoy doing all those stuff he's making u do...no one can force u to do anything u don't like doing!if he loves u too he will understand that u're not ready yet...but if he still forces u too sleep with him,well then it's pretty clear why is he with u...and u should know that the way too keep a guy isn't giving him all he wont's right away!by doing that u'll only achieve him leaving u for some girl he has to fight for...
2007-02-10 00:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to think of the consequences when you're with him. what you're doing, what will it result in. ask yourself whether you want to be with him for the rest of your life. don't stay with him just because he's the hottest guy around, there's alot of opportunities in life. if there's no love, things will never go the right way. cool him down when he asks you to do thing you don't want to, example changing the subject or any excuse that could stop him from harassing you. but don't keep on doing that, just don't do such things so often. follow your intuition and do the thing you believe is the best. you don't have to keep doing the things you don't want to. a cute guy with a lousy personality is not always good. change him if you can.
2007-02-09 23:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont break up with him but u eventuallyt have to do it just tell him ur not ready but dont hurt his feelings do the other erotic stuff but dont the sex but if ur not ready by the time ur 18 well u have to do it
2007-02-09 23:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chequinah C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO ONE CAN FORCE YOU TO DO ANYTHING! Best thing to do is tell him its your body and you will do you want to do ! sounds like rape if hes forcing his self on you . If he loves you he will lay off for a while IF HE DON'T THEN HE AIN'T WORTH HAVING!only do the things that you feel comfortable with . IF hes hot I'm sure you are to ! PLUS DON'T LET HIM EXPERTMENT ON YOU TELL HIM TO BUY A DOLL! p.s guys that age always tell your business! Take control OF YOUR BODY
2007-02-10 00:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by luvinlola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey carol...If u really love him badly... and u really wan to be wif him...Then u have to do something le.. I`m a guy.. i knoe it.. guys love sex... but if u continue this way at this age... trust me.. soon he will be bored wif u.. he will find u can`t satisfy him and he will get to find another gal to give him excitment... so silly gal... since u already given him ur precious thing... and if u wanna get hold of him.. then u must play hard to get le... dun be the one tat jsut followling her and let him do all he wan... Guys love challenges.. and the harder he get .. the more challenging it get and the more he wan it.. the more he wan it.. the harder he will go for the more he will give in.. U should have ur life and dun be silly.. Dun let urself turn bored so easily... extend it.. by...? play him! Control him... by wat? let him feel tat u are not 100% his.. sex toy.. and if he really love u... he will respect u... but since ur relation is base on sex... then to be frank.. if u tell him tat u will stop having sex.. i guess he will break up wif u immediately.(tat is wat i guess not neccessary to be true).... but u got to have ur own stand gal! U will rule him! so Even break up! is he is the one who suffer! not u.. So scare of wat? find another guy who love you of who u are? Sex is not fun without love...
2007-02-10 00:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Troubled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep putting up with everything he wants and you dont well he has all the power over you, so it's your body you are the QUEEN over it and has the say so as to what you wanna do not him. so of he is pressuring you into stuff well give him the low down as to whatmight happen if he dont listen to your wants and dislikes, good luck.
2007-02-09 23:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by willwork4u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him im not doing it if he cant respeact your opoinen then break up with him because he dosnt care about you he cares how many girls he can hit problry you are his target because you are the only one who would say no to him when the other girls say hell yea
2007-02-10 00:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by jaja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't force you to have sex....you love it that's why you are still with him!!
2007-02-09 23:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. break up with him.
2007-02-09 23:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋