I have fallen for a girl in my office. We use to travel in the same cab daily, but would never talk to each other. One fine day I started messaging her and asked her to be my friend. She accepted me as her friend. We were daily exchanging messages. She even told that she dosen't have any boyfriend. One fine day I proposed her to marry me, but she refused. She only want me as her friend. I even gave her some gifts which she accepted, but she dont want to marry me. I got into her love very deeply without my knowledge. All day and night only she is there in my mind. One fine day she suddenly started telling that she have a boyfriend and requested me not to force her to love me. I cannot forget her. I tried concentrating on my work and other activities, but still she is always there in my mind. I need her. Can anyone please advise me, should I wait for her? are there any chances of she loving me or should I forget her?
2007-02-09 23:13:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was obviously not meant to be.....
Leave her alone! Ignore her, she'll probably start missing your attention. .....if, she's playing games!
You deserve to be with someone who feels the same way you feel....
GL
2007-02-09 23:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. You can't make someone love you. Just keep her as a friend. If you push her further into something she clearly doesnt want, you'll loose her as a friend too. Don't assume girls being your friend means anything more. She should be able to make male friends without feeling guilty for not wanting to take it further.
2007-02-10 07:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited for a girl who lied to me for 4 years, leading me on, telling me she liked me etc.
She hurt me, I learned since then, there are other women, she isn't the only one. I can live without her, and find someone to love me back.
If she is telling you she has a boyfriend all of a sudden like that, it means in girl language, she wants her distance, freedom, you need to give her space.
2007-02-10 07:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go and look elsewhere. You have told her your feelings and that is all you can do. Perhaps the best thing would be to get another girlfriend, This could make her jealous. Or make her respect you more. Best thing to do is to totally back of and even treat her badly. See how she reacts to that. Girls like bad boys.
2007-02-10 07:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think you are thinking this over to hard because she probably doesn't like you, that's why she took your gifts and why would you just ask her to marry you? did you two have a ongoing sexual realtionship?? Because if you didn't, all you did was massage her neck and ask her to be your friend and then you asked her to marry you?? You were moving way to fast. So That is your answer, Enjoy!
2007-02-10 07:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i respect your feelings n i'm really sprry to say that you should not wait for her,,she has clearly refused you,,if you will force her she'll start seeing you as a peevish person. you must marry and love to the one who loves n cares for you and not the one to whom only you love.no way in keeping a relationship where you are not getting any feedback... hope you understand,sorry if i have hurted your feelings,,take care
2007-02-10 07:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by samiksha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy to say but you have no choice but "FORGET HER".You cant afford to spoil your life waiting for someone like that.Just try to open yourself to a new world.Time is the best healer.Though difficult but you WILL forget her.
Come out.Its a beautiful world outside.
2007-02-10 07:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go try paying attention to girls beyond her desk. look past her and you'll be surprised she's not the only girl you'll ever fall in love with. If you see her happy now, it's time you moved on and forget her.You deserve to be happy. Good luck!
2007-02-10 07:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by no-namer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE A VERY GOOD PERSON IF THIS IS SO . IF YOU REALLY LOVE THAT THEN DONT LOSE HOPE YOU WILL GET HER IN ANY CASE . IF DONT YOU WILL GET ANOTHER AS GIRLS LOVE SWEET BOYS . YOU MUST TAKE HER FOR A DINNER AND MADE HER REALIZE THAT YOU THE ONLY ONE FOR HER OPEN YOUR EMOTIONS TO HER EVEN CRY IF YOU CAN JUST OPEN YOUR HEART FOR HER AND SHE WILL DEFFENATELY ACCEPT YOU. IF SHE REFFUSES THEN FORGET HER . IHAVE SYMPATHY TO YOU SAME HAS HAPPENED TO ME BUT IN DIFFERENT MANNER.
2007-02-10 08:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by AaSHEK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out on date with other girls. If she really gets jelous of you and tries to win back ur attention. She has something for you and then !!! Happy Relationship building
2007-02-10 07:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by SravanKumar Iyer ( Shavi) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋