I was with this married man for about a year and a half, and finally i broke up with him. I really love him but I just couldnt do it. I really miss him sooooo much but i dont wanna call him. Im just trying to deal with it. Everytime when Im alone I feel like calling him, what can i do to get my mind off him. I know that he's probably mad at me for breaking up with him but to me it was the right thing to do....What are some things that i should do to get him off of my mind...............????
2007-02-09 22:56:48 · 12 answers · asked by lovelygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
date someone else. I'm sure ure pretty and not dumb. you sound interesting - and complex. guy's seem to like that.
There is no easy way out. Good luck though & do not give in to temptation!
2007-02-09 23:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. He cheated on his wife. The person he swore to God that he would love till death did them part. What do you think he'd do if you two ever got together? You've partaken in his track record, so you know he's not trustworthy. All you were to him was a trophy for his own record book. Get a real man who isn't married and doesn't cheat on a girlfriend to have you. That's a foundation you can build a lasting relationship on.
2007-02-10 07:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by truckinmann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. he isn't calling you is he? go to the gym, hang out with your girlfriends. stay busy. get laid and often. it takes a long time to get over something that felt so good but was really bad for you. if he could have hurt you in some way to make you hate him it would be easier to move on, right? but he was hurting you, how lonely were you at holidays, weekends. this was going nowhere for you. by the way, was he a doctor? with 3 children? it has been nearly 10 years since i did the same thing. i still think of him. but hurts less every time.
2007-02-10 07:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as bad as this sounds, find another guy to divert your attention. whether that dude is rebound or whatever, it usually works.
otherwise, spend more time with friends and cry if u need to. just try to occupy your time and stop thinking about how things were and how things could have been.
he's married. u did the right thing. u've taken the first step in the right direction, now be strong. u'll be fine. *hugs*
2007-02-10 07:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you want to call him, call a friend instead. Keep busy and find other people to hang out with. It takes time, but it will get better. Remember, he's married and, even if he left his family to be with you, he would find someone else and leave you to be with her. Be smart and let this guy go.
2007-02-10 07:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temporary solution get pissed tonight so you'll have amnesia and tom you'll have a hell of a headache so you Will forget about him for about 2 days,or just get out there again you will find someone else.
2007-02-10 07:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things you can do! go out with your friends and don't listen to sad songs or do things that remind you of hI'm find someone single. im married and i know hes cheating and it really hurts so please leave him alone so maybe he can resolve his own marriage! DON'T LET HIM HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TO! you find someone else that can spend all his time with you. you did the right thing!!!!!!
2007-02-10 07:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by luvinlola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find some entertainments like reading, singing or any other stuff to do. for a start....try to swicth on the radio and while ur listening to it, go and clean up the house.
if that doesn't work, try to hang around with ur friends and to ur normal stuff like chatting, gossips, and all.
if that doesn't work either, go find another guy to replace him..... 'cuz if not.....u might end up comitting suicide.
2007-02-10 07:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First place you deserve to be miserable! He is married! If he is cheating on his wife what makes you think you are the only one? I think you should call yourself stupid and go on with your life! ,maybe you have learned something!
2007-02-10 07:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by les m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be like this girl.ur is wife n husband y sholud broke up .plz don't be like this ok.u can use ur heart to talk with him .god bless u .good luck!!!
2007-02-10 07:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋