I cant stand him, i dont love him, but he loves me and i cant get out of this relationship. i have tried to break up with him many times and he wont let it happen, he comes to my house, wont stop caling every time i try to end it
2007-02-09 22:53:00 · 29 answers · asked by Nicolle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither do I & I dont even know him
2007-02-09 23:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Silver Bullet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been where you are and it only gets worse. Tell him firmly that you want out and then stop ALL contact. If you talk to him every now and again that will only teach him that if he pesters you enough you'll talk to him. Enlist your parents if you live at home. Good luck and never back down!!! Oh, and for all the people who say to get a restraining order, it isn't that easy. There has to be proof of a threat made. Restraining orders are nowhere as easy to get as people think that they are and you aren't guaranteed to even get one.
2007-02-09 22:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him seriously at one point and tell him everything you want starting from not loving him anymore, to you're sorry, to the breaking up part. I mean, if you continue with this relationship it'll feel like you're cheating on both him and yourself. The relationship should be both you and him in love so try talking some sense into him.
2007-02-09 23:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 01:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by roca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just break up with him. if you dont like him then make it happen. dont answer his calls, change your number if need be. warn him if he comes to the house you will call the police. it will take a bit of time but he will get the hint eventually
dont let him dictate whether you are together or not
2007-02-09 22:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel_Son_Bonsai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. i think your a very accepting person...what i dont think is...i dont think he is a stalker...but...if he dosent pay attention 2 you when you say you dont want 2 b with him...just dont talk to him...dont bother...you dont want a guy always begging 4 ur attention...drop the dude...tell him 2 get a life...and ask him 2 move on...wait...tell him to move on...u gotta enjoy ur life without worrying about his problems...so live...and tell him 2 do the same...im sure u deserve better....and im sure he will get it soon.
Be straight with him and never give him a chance 2 think he might still have a chance...its better 4 him and you....trust me...he will finally get it...dont try 2 anger/bother him ..by being irritating...just tell him the truth...if that still dosent work...tell him you will call the police.
best of luck And keep it real
2007-02-09 23:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Praize J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all up to u...
i cant stand my bf too but the reason y i cant get out of relationshp is because i love him..
in ur case..if u dont love him..its easier..dont show any interest and ignore him..date a new guy or have a relationshp with another guy..which of course u love.. :)
maybe he loves u so..poor guy...but its gotta be a 2 way relationship so try ur best to turn him off...in everyway possible
2007-02-09 22:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by troubled_woman85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight to the point, go make a relationsip with another guy and ask the guy to handle ur boyfriend. but make sure to find a guy that really have the feelings for you, or not...it doesn't work.
This is the same trick i did to breake up with my 3rd boyfriend.
2007-02-09 23:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem with a guy i was with 3 years ago,he made me feel sick so i had to dump him!he wouldnt except that it was over kept calling me, waiting outside my house writing me letters, eventually i phoned his parents told them that if he didnt leave me alone i would get a police junction out on him oh and i changed my mobile number pronto!!! :) xx
2007-02-09 23:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people are going to have you creating a bigger problem- they think they are so smart to tell you to call the police right off the bat.
Be boring to be around. Be less available. Be stupid. Miss a couple of dates. That should do it.
2007-02-09 22:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a wuss tell him blunlty I don't want to be with you. If he doesn't get the hint try to lose all contact change your phone don't answer the door. If he keeeps stalking you call the PO PO
2007-02-09 22:57:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋