healthy guy,parents can care bout thmselves..
2007-02-09 22:47:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes its Ok provided you contribute to living costs and you observe the house rule . Im sure if Mum or Dad needed you to help you would be there cheerfully .
2007-02-09 22:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on the situation
if he is working and contributing to the household bills and not being a mooch sure its fine if he is still there
or if he is going to school and doing good in school taking it seriously sure its fine he still lives with his parents
or if he has a disability where he cant take care of himself than yah he should be with them
but for a 21 year old man not going to school not working perfectly healthy just living at home nope its not okay
2007-02-10 05:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answers so far. I think the key is to avoid being a mooch. If you contribute nothing or make no effort to bear your share, it becomes a problem.
In our society it is a shame that admitting to needing and accepting help is met with such stigmatism. I have always believed that a nation's strength was measured in its willingness to aide those in need.
Even if you could live on your own, while a grey area, can be acceptable. I think the situation would be more acceptable if you were providing extensive help to your parents or other relative.
2007-02-09 23:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude... its the best deal.
im 21.. girl though.. live at home.
prlly in college right? okay first of all we both know your broke... so even if you were to move out that means you have to work twice as hard to pay for it.. then do all your school stuff. its just added pressure on yourself. once you get your degree.. then ofcourse move out, get a place... then give your parents some thankyou money once in a while. but now.. who cares what other people think. as long as your parents arent anal.. and crazy.. enjoy your time at home.
2007-02-09 23:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by imright 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly fine for a 21 year old to still live at home, as long as you contribute something to the household and don't take your parents for granted.
2007-02-09 23:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by tami_ky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay to still live with your parents at 21. I hope you are working and saving your money so when you are ready to move out on your own you wont have to struggle! I am sure your parents dont mine either or they would have pushed you out of the nest. My 22 still lives at home and I enjoy having him around. We have a great relationship and he helps out around the house. He is able to save his money so he can move out with not having to scrounge up his first and last months rent when he is ready. As long as you respect your parents and help them out when they need it, I think it is great. Save your money and appreciate Mom and Dad!
2007-02-09 22:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by helen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation. cheaper than a dorm room at school, saving to buy a house of your own, saving for the down payment, parents need your help? these are all understandable reasons.
druggie, can't hold a job, mama's boy, lazy (likes having Mom do the cooking, cleaning and laundry for you). these are lousy reasons to stay at home.
2007-02-10 00:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Housing costs are skyrocketing-that's getting more and more common. Far from ideal, but you're definetely not the only out there. My ex-girlfriend is 25 and lives at home, and she has a job and a graduate degree.
2007-02-09 22:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There seems to be no age limit for leaving the nest now a days and the stigmas attached to same have changed, so yes I guess it is okay.
2007-02-13 22:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋