What would you think if you were fooling around with your girlfriend about her ex husband, joking with her. You said you still love your ex husband, come on admit it. Sure enough she said she does because he ws the first person she slept with and had children with. They had an 11 year marriage together. Wouldn't you feel like a b*tch?
Would have been better to lie and say no I don't love him at all?
2007-02-09 22:43:11 · 6 answers · asked by Rocky 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep would of been better to say nothing at all.
2007-02-09 22:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i hate it when currents ask me about my past. but, i cant blame them either. the curiosity is only natural.
well if the outcome would be terrible if i do decide to be honest, i'd usually lie. but then, sooner or later, especially if the dude keep asking, the i'd feel bad for lying and eventually tell the truth and turn him into a beast.
so... here is what i think. u ask once, she tells a white lie (or it could be the truth). then dont ask her again.
BUT in your situation, u said u guys were fooling around. so maybe u got her in a very comfortable zone, and she felt she could trust u enough to be understanding and calm and mature about it, thus she decided to be honest. but come on, she's with u now. that dude is her EX husband. so chill out.
2007-02-10 06:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, you stepped right into that one. This is what they mean by "Let sleeping dogs lie". Of course she still loves him. She will probably always love him to an extent but she's with YOU now, so are you going to throw that all away for a stupid question that you never should have asked in the first place? Don't try to make her the bad guy for answering a question honestly that you asked unfairly!
2007-02-10 06:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not as simply to say yes or no about a long term ex spouse. It is good that someone trust you enought that they can tell you they still have some feeling for their ex. it is always better to face the truth, then live a lie.
2007-02-10 06:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on grow up a little man. he was the first guy she slept with and she has children by him. there will always be some kind of emotional attachment there. it aint nothing to worry about
2007-02-10 06:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by chronus79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what, there is always a part of you that will love an ex-spouse, and there is no shame in admitting it
2007-02-10 06:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by A A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋