Okay, I have a friend (No really, its not me) -- Who's almost 15, and has never looked at a boy.
Is that unusual? Does it mean she might be gay?
I mean, i know alot of people who started dating when they were like 11 or 12, but aparently my friend reckons "She can talk to guys, but thats all that happens, nothing more ever comes of it"
What exactly does that mean? x| I'm confused.
2007-02-09 22:37:29 · 11 answers · asked by Amaloli 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's just 15, maybe she's not like other girls. She has her own interests, and maybe the boys she meets aren't the ones she's looking for and maybe she's very careful about looking for the right guy to give her love to. a girl's love is sacred we shouldn't just give it away like that! she's also maybe concentrating on her studies it better if you start dating in college or so, because high school is more about your studies.. so dont worry.. and talk to her about it if you reallly want to know whats up..
2007-02-09 22:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by moose_uncanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm strait and I dint like guys until I was 15 so now it dose not mean shes gay; shes just not ready or maybe shes not attracted to any one around her school or neighbor hood. Don't bother her about it and don't push er in to relation ships she dose not want to be a part off. I Benn there I always had my high school friends trying to convince me to go out with the boys that liked me. If she was gay she would be dating other girls by now; but that shouldn't bother you if you are her friend. By the way I have been with my boyfriend for ten years and he was the second man in my life I was attracted to so no it dose not mean shes gay maybe shes just picky or hasn't found a boy that has the qualities shes looking for .
2007-02-09 23:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by ashira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Millions of kids and they all are different--in every way--even dating. They will all start when they are ready--or just think they are ready. Your friend is no exception---and no amount of pushing will do any good. Too many young people date and get involved way too early, including having sex. It is a matter of priorities--school and home come first---dating should be light and just for fun. Too many unwanted babies and diseases are going around because of irresponsible and uninformed dating and sex. Self control, respect, maturity, and doing the right thing are lessons in life---young people need to learn these things and hone their social skills---your friend will date when she is ready---just don't get involved and do not put pressure on her. Good luck and Happy valentines Day
2007-02-09 22:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people never start dating until they are in their 20's or 30's many of them are just to shy or don't even now how to act around the oposite sex. Or some are just waiting for the right person.There are some people who have no interest in dating at all. lt does not mean they are gay.
2007-02-09 22:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's probably insecure about it and you shouldn't push her. I didn't date until I was seventeen. It all depends. She might be attracted to guys but doesn't tell anyone. Who knows? Oh, and I don't think that you are born homosexual, something generally happens to throw you off, or else teen hormones get in the way, so I doubt she's gay. Anyway, everyone makes their own way, let her make hers.
2007-02-09 22:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok for her not to want to date right now, my first date was at 16, and no not because i'm ugly or anything but it was my personal choice (plus I had't met anyone that I liked) but at 16 was when I met my first love, so maybe she just hasn't found the right guy yet but she will, and if she is gay be there and support her thats a hard thing to tell anyone.
2007-02-09 22:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by ivynicole97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's any set age for dating boys. Its a matter of personal preference. She will date guys when she's ready. Just because she has no boyfriend doesn't mean she's gay.
2007-02-09 22:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt mean she's gay. Not everyones ready to date at a specific age. Some girls dont like boys until they're 17-18. Some like boys as early as 10yrs old. Depends on the persons maturity development/puberty etc....
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2007-02-09 22:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Herbal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 06:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just isnt ready for a relationship yet..dont ush her into it..yes maybe she is gay but thats ok isnt it..!?!?
2007-02-09 22:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lolliepop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋