Love or Lust? Which is more realistic? There are so many people who "fall out of love" and skip to the next partner. Does love (the non-familial kind) really exist?
2007-02-09 22:25:07 · 9 answers · asked by Blue Suede Shoes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I do.
As much as there are a lot of people who "fall out of love"and skip to the next partner, there are also a LOT of people who stick to their love and work very hard to enhance it and invogorating it.
Love is the ultimate stage of infatuation, lust or attraction. In other words, love is always an experiment between two people. If they are compatible love blooms, if not love dies out. That's why a lot of people would not call the first encounters or feelings as love, or true love.
Yet, it is also true that some people reach the higher stage of love sooner than others. It is these who get really hurt when the other person breaks it off, or treat the relationship superficially and dishonestly! It is also the reason, for many people who are in love, to be hesitant or reluctant to fall in love again. Because the first or earlier experincies are so painful to repeat it.
Thank God, we have short memories or we are able to forget, that we do fall in love again when we find someone whom we have no control of our feelings towards him/her.
All the best!
2007-02-09 22:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does, my mom and dad love each other, I see it every time I'm with them. Love and lust are different things and both are just as real. I beleive in love, any kind. Love is beautiful and wonderful and rare, that's why cynics deny it. There you go, my opinion.
2007-02-10 06:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Lust is short term satisfaction.
2007-02-10 06:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love exists.
Lust exists.
No matter how great your love, you can be tempted by lust, no matter how great your lust, you can fall in love.
Love & Lust are probably equal in power.
You never know which one will win.
2007-02-10 06:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust is not love..But i do believe in love. For me love is something you can't explain
2007-02-10 06:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by icecream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-02-10 06:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive in love but love doesn't belive in me because I fell in love but the other person didn't.
2007-02-10 06:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is physical n emotional
LUST is just physical
2007-02-10 06:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not real
2007-02-10 06:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋