To not contact back for a bit and see how long he takes before contacting you. This reveals how interested he is in you.
We pay attention how often a man contacts us.
Not to have sex with a man to see is he is really interested in us as an individual not just as a sex playmate. Sex is great...yet to go out and share activities together is a compliment to a woman and the relationship.
I'll ask in conversation of how he spends his own personal time / his friends. What I seeking is information if he has his own life, has friends, if he enjoys life or simply spends his evenings / weekends alone. I'd want to enhance a man's life...not be his sole entertainment or only way his heart is embraced. He should have his own life also and friends he does things with before he met me.
How he talks about his past relationships and how he reflects about them now. How he talks about past women...does he put them down and use cruel words...if so...that indicates to me that he may eventually talk to me that way if I were to develop a deeper relationship with him.
I person can cover anything early in a relationship . . . That is why I pay attention and will not commit myself exclusively or won't marry too soon because I want to see if the man I am coming to know is authenticly as he reflects himself to be and not a wolf in sheeps clothing. I'm looking for consistancy and authentic personality traits...The real person eventually does reveal themselfs...I pay attention to how the person really is
AND . . . Why should'nt we women test you men . . . this is the heart we're talking about. Both men and women should be discerning and looking out for their hearts. Open yet still aware.
2007-02-09 22:26:34
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answered by onelight 5
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Its what I call "s.hit-tests". Its not because women naturally do it out of spite. I dont want to get into the whole socialogical / historical primate mating schpeel. But to make a long story short here goes:
You will get s.hit-tested by women, ESPECIALLY hot women. Why you ask? They get hit on constantly by men everyday. Yes even 5's and 6's get hit on, not just 9's and 10's. So they need a way to screen guys out. What better way then to s.hit-test a guy if he comes up and tries to hit on her? A guy walks up and from the moment he opens his mouth, a girl probably thinks she's being hit on. "Hi, ummm my name is Dave" "Oh hey dave...Nice sweater. Did you get it from like K-Mart or something?" (Then you see the color completely drain from Daves face and Dave walks away) Lol. Dave has just failed the s.hit-test. Problem solved for the girl. Like any other AFC (Average ******** Chump), he didnt know what to say or do. A girl does the test also to see how you would respond. Naturally her mating instincts tells her to choose the strongest and fittest guys. Solution? You have to show that her tests dont PHASE you at all. That you KNOW what she's doing and your not intimidated by her sillyness but that you understand why she's doing it. Show her that your the alpha-male and feel free to tease her back. "Hey I like your nails. Are they real?" "Umm..nooo, its manicure" "Hahaha. I was going to say they're too perfect to be real" (Right there YOUR the one giving her the test) Or "I love your blonde hair. Is it natural?" "Noo...its colored" "Its cool....I guess...." (Then turn away as if your no longer interested) Etc etc... But once you pass the s.hit-test, your golden
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2007-02-09 22:38:54
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answered by Herbal 2
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more beneficial than a lady-Bee Gees She's a lady-The Beatles female-John Lennon Evil female-Black Sabbath Evil female-ELO devil female-Cliff Richard Honky Tonk women folk-Rolling Stones once you want a lady-adventure in the eyes of a lady-adventure guy,i trust like a lady-Shania Twain moist Day women folk numbers 12 and 35-Bob Dylan female,you'd be a lady quickly-both Neil Diamond or Urge Overkill the female in me-Shania Twain female-Styx female unusual-Def Leppard American female-both The wager Who or Lenny Kravitz
2016-12-03 23:55:45
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answered by ? 4
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I don't believe all women give tests and personally prefer to be up front and speak my mind testing is playing games.
2007-02-09 22:25:36
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answered by holly 7
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the dreaded testicle test,
the money test
the easily man-nipple-ation test
the drivers test
the breast test
the go west test
2007-02-09 22:37:18
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answered by Anonymous
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What's your favorite movie? If he says "Hostel". See ya! If he says "Bambi". See ya!. You can tell a lot about a person by the favorite movie they claim. I like a man who says "Christmas Vacation".
2007-02-09 22:27:27
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answered by Mrs. T 4
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every second of the day your with them there testing you. Thats all they do
2007-02-09 22:38:12
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't know if it is something they consciously do,or they make it up at any given moment to keep you in check.
2007-02-09 22:26:02
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answered by Mickey 1
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