i just liked him basically for the sex and i think he was angry near the end that was all i wanted from him,but i was followed a few times and one of his mates pounced on me,groped and spit on me.why do this to me???
2007-02-09 21:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
I guess he didnt like being rejected and once he realised you had just used him he wanted to hurt you maybe like you hurt him. I mean how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Think about it, the lesson to be learnt is dont use people and i would feel like spitting at you if you done that to me.
2007-02-11 19:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cabbage,
Well you have had the moral stance from people, now lets have a look at the law.
If you are in the UK.
Being followed on more than one occasion is stalking. This is contrary to the Protection from Harrassment Act, which is an offence.
Being groped is sexual assault and being spit on is assault.
These are all serious offences. Go to the police and press charges. Next time it could be worse. The person may think that because they got away with the first attack they will get away with it again.
Next time, don't just use someone for your own gratification. It's not nice and does not look good for you. Word may get around and then when you meet that someone special they may not want to know you.
Good luck.
2007-02-11 07:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by LYN W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One complaint from women sometimes is that men just use them for sex (or they worry that men are just using them for sex). Problems arise in this scenario when the boundaries of a particular relationship aren't clear (e.g. one person thinks it's just a bit of fun, the other thinks it's serious and is going somewhere). I don't think your case is any different.
The fact that he's from a rough and tough estate may or may not be the reason for what happened to you. You can't necessarily blame his background on his friend's behaviour. Plenty of decent law-abiding citizens live on rough estates. But you should report this behaviour to the police as nobody deserves to undergo this.
2007-02-10 10:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by hevs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Report the person who spat on you to the police.
It's a case of men feeling that it's OK for them to just enjoy themselves with us...but they take offence when they realise that they have been treated in the same way.
2007-02-10 05:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can file a case on unjust vexation against the person who spit on you. It is a crime defined under the Penal Laws.
2007-02-10 05:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh rough estate and you are from clean estate....pls give a break.However report that idiot that spat on you before they do something dangerous to you.
2007-02-10 08:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by wise5557 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you wern't clear enough about the one night stand thing and he was expecting more.
press charges against his friend to show him that your not a push over
2007-02-10 05:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you wallow in merde, then the stench will follow.
2007-02-10 12:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has got to be a lesson for you.
stick to your own class.
2007-02-10 06:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Boscombe 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should have stayed away from him.
2007-02-10 05:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋