what can i do to build up my confidence in every aspect?

Question

i'm a shy person. with almost no confidence in just about everything. but i'm not a total lost. i was just curious on ideas

Answer 1

For one, realize you aren't here to please anyone but yourself. If people cannot accept you for who you are then screw them. Alot of people are shy, it's something that is not easy to overcome, but you have to be willing to let yourself come out of the shell. Accept compliments people give you. Don't assume people are saying something just to be nice. Heck, if you have the money, treat yourself to a makeover and see how much that actually helps you with your shyness and self esteem. One day of feeling totally beautiful can change a person's outlook for the rest of their life. Alot of people have insecurities, they just don't show it. If you're beautiful on the inside, then let it shine out and overflow onto your outside. People are drawn to someone who gives off a vibe of being beautiful regardless of what others think. That will help you with your shyness also.

Answer 2

If you are doing this constantly, then yes. Its not just about looking good. A friend of mine went through this, and she gained little to no confidence. What really helped her out was starting new hobbies and working her confidence, on a mental level. She also dated a guy who made her feel special, and she realized that she didnt need to look physically good all of the time. I would try doing something different if I were you. Sure, you can still put on makeup and such but try something else out too :)

Answer 3

Rely upon yourself.Try to have confidence on your matter logically.If it is found wrong try to accept it.If it is found right try to keep it in limit for further shining but never satisfied.

Answer 4

Be religious by reading bible so you develope self-worth, compassion, brotherhood.

Answer 5

Get a dog.