i m in love with a man that i can never have.he is 15 years older, has a girlfriend in other states.but i've never liked anyone this much.I am so attracted to him to a point I think i m sick.he and I used to work in the same company and saw each other every day. When i first met him, i could tell that he was attracted to me as well. We did a lot of things together during lunch but never gone out after work.to me-is good cause I would've done something stupid if we did go out.We were friends, we text and chat online almost everyday.He once said if he wasn't in a relationship and if i was a bit older than everything wouldn't be the same.At that point i realized i was in something deep. After he left the company we were still talking but it was not the same.Now i don't get to talk or see him... it kills me. I know even if he was single, it would never worked out at the end...but still, i can't believe how much this hurts right now..I m going on a date 2morro, i feel bad 4 my date...
2007-02-09 20:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by ms.knownothing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Friend----I'd like to start by saying congratulations on going on that date----that's an important 1st step whether the date is a success or a bust-----that's exactly what you DO need-----to move on with your life now and find a new romance----I somehow feel this is really what you need --------Good Luck
2007-02-09 20:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please treat your new date like they are the best thing for you. You will be surprised once you are really in love with the right person you will look back and know you made the right decision. The decision Not going out after work with this guy was the right one. because if he went out with you he would do the same behind your back. If he had a girl friend he shouldn't be flirting with you. Your guarding angel is looking after you. I look up to you for making the right decision. Move on and enjoy your life.
2007-02-10 04:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not going to help to hear this, but it will pass in time. Go on your date tomorrow. It is not going to be fun. You are going to think, "You are not HIM." It is ok. Your next date will be a little better, and then the next one after that, a little bit more. In time...
2007-02-10 04:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by leonche64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the final result,so dont brood.Your feelings are genuine,but you know it does not have a future.So enjoy your date.
2007-02-10 04:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you know you can never have this man why get so sick if he going just let him go and you go on with your life
2007-02-10 04:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DITTO! i am going thru the same thing now!
2007-02-10 04:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by hello_beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geesh how old are you? bless your heart :)
2007-02-10 04:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋