my bfs mother is suffering from cancer. its at a stage of no cure. he is totally broken. how can i make him feel a little better? its killing me to see him like this.
2007-02-09 20:13:44 · 13 answers · asked by icegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is there anything i can say or do to make him feel better? i already told him tht im there for him n love him a lot.... he jus replied with a very sad ok....
2007-02-09 20:19:26 · update #1
u hve too juz see to it tht u dont make him angry.....always be by his isde....respect his decisions....listen to him alot.....share his probs....dnt try 2 make him too happy....it can backfire n make him sad....help him in his work.....dnt force urself on him....dnt worry dear....things will get fine in time.....support him whenever he needs u and i fell sorry for his mom....hope theres a miracle n she becumes fine
2007-02-09 21:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation before as you. What I did was called my bf up and told him we needed to talk about some things. Well I told him that I didn't feel the same about him as I did when we first dating. I assured him (for the sake of not hurting his ego) that it was nothing to do with him. I assured him we could still be friends and so on but I felt at this moment in time its best we dont date. Be sure when your talking to him that you dont sit so far away because then he is going to think its cause of him. If I can help you on anything else feel free to let me know =) Brandon Lee
2016-05-24 21:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him as you already are. Is he a Christian? If so, you can remind him that his mum will go to be with the Lord, and it will be much better than suffering on this earth. You may also want to pray together with him.
His love and bond with his mum is a different kind to the one with you, but your love and support certainly still makes a great deal of difference!
2007-02-09 20:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i want to say i am so sorry but the best thing to do is keep a positive Attitude , just engourage him, let him no that everyday is special with her, i went through this with my husbands father. We moved him in with us and tried everything to make everyday great, all he wanted was to get out and drive around, and of course the dr's said no so when hubby went to work me and pop went driving, (him driving) would make his day, its the little things that matter. they have good days and bad and on those good daysdo what you can. if you ever need someone to ask anything about do not hesitate to yell at me, good luck, and my prayers are with you both, god bless, janie
2007-02-09 20:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by jgordongrl24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your bf is going through, my mother just has been diagonesed with a brain tumor......this whole week i couldn't really attend classes or any of normal day life activities.
though i dont have a gf rite now. i believe the best thing for you to do is be there when your bf needs you, other than let him be the way he wants.
2007-02-09 20:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not much you can say to make him feel better, but just be there for him, listen to him and just be the strength that he needs to get through this tough time. his mother raised your bf to be the man that you love, so give your respect to her as well and try to be there with them. good luck!
2007-02-09 20:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by hello_beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for your boyfriend....i feel really saddened to hear stuff like this.Sweety...i don't think there is a way to make him feel better(in the long run)....but maybe you, your boyfriend and his mum could go away for a few days to a holiday place near the beach or something relaxing like that(if his mum is not too sick to do that)....because if she is still well enough to do something like that, then it will make her happy...and if your boyfriend's mum is happy...then your boyfriend will be too.
Just let him no that you are there for him if he needs someone to talk to.
Good Luck.And my deepest sympathy for you and your boyfriend. ash
2007-02-09 20:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen when he talks and dont push anything on him he cant handle for now. Youre going to have to put him first until he recovers.
2007-02-09 20:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's really sad ........ no one in the world cannot replace his mom. thru whom he came and recognised his father........
only thing u can console himm... just take him out regularly... date him on week ends.. make Nice love to him... just at least for a while he will be coming out of sorrow... this wht u can do.........
2007-02-09 21:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His knowing that you are there, and that you are supporting him makes all the difference in the world
2007-02-09 20:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋