Is there really an acceptable approach to women by a man?

Question

I see all sorts of complaints for men being too effeminate, by expecting women to meet them half way; or more. I also see many, many women complaining about macho come on lines.

Ladies, what's a man to do? Is this all just a game or competition where we lack proper communication ettiquette, or what?

Answer 1

yeah, ladies are very mysterious but they are worth loving and respecting!

Answer 2

You sound a bit bitter, Interview my dear.(According to some males on this site that is reserved for females.) Why don't women ever approach men? Some of us do, and some of us prefer for the man too, but all hope that we walk away with the man that we wouldn't mind spending time with. Bottom line:If you float her boat there would be no chance of rejection but if you don't she is going to let reject you. This should not stop you from approaching that is one of the ways you can tell if she is at all into you.

Answer 3

I know you want a woman's point of view, but allow me to offer this.

Talk, normal talk. No pick-up lines. No slick approaches. No come-ons. No overt, insincere compliments.

You've heard it a gazillion times, "Be yourself." You can't please all, but you WILL please the right one. And, when you do, it's magic.

I met my wife through a dating service WAY back when. I worked crazy, rotating hours, and had a tough time meeting women.

Due to our mutual crazy work schedules we could only phone each other for over a month before we met in person. When she answered the door, my first thought was, "Well, that's it. Another 1-time date and I'm history." She was petite, svelte, stacked, and cute as a button. I'm big, overweight, and very plain looking. I didn't think I had a chance in hell.

2 years later we wed, moved 400 miles, bought a house, and I started a new job, all in the same year. She gave birth to our 1st son the next year.

If you were to have seen the disparity between us, you wouldn't believe I could get so lucky. I still can't believe it, but it happened.

She told me later that she liked me from the get-go because she felt I was honest, open, sincere, and treated her with respect and dignity. If you knew me, you'd know all of that is true.

She also told me she was at first afraid of me because she thought I was macho. I drove a black GTO at the time, but I'm far from macho. I just liked the car.
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Answer 4

I think it depends on the woman. I love men~some appeal to me more than others. Some men know how to talk just the way I like, look just the way I like, and turn me on just the way I like-other's don't. It's not about competition, it's initial attraction. It's either there, or it's not. Some women take time to see what's in the heart of a man, some take him at face value.

Answer 5

The rules of dating are very complicated.

I believe in playing it in the way you feel comfortable.

I went out with a guy recently, and neither of us had much money. So we agreed that if he paid for me to get into the aquarium, then I would buy him dinner.

It was a fun night.

We still talk, but not very often cause we are both short of money, and both very busy. Plus we live around 3000 km apart.

Answer 6

It's not about it being a competition, when all you want is our body, we feel that. We know what you're up to and when you use lines like that we figure that you're only about one thing. Approach us like we're people not someone who you only want to get in bed with and I'm sure you won't have that problem. Good luck!

Answer 7

It's the ladies that are the problem.

Mant desire what they don't want and complain about what they have!

'-)