I am not the type of girl to wait for a guy to get marrried! However I want him to be with me and only with me while we are together! I wanna stay with him for a while and I know he wants to be with me for a while! I don't know where we are going and we have had the "M" talk before. He wants to get married one day with someone and I have no need to be married but I would like the committment of marriage without the paper, changing last name, wedding deal! So is there something stronger then boyfriend and girlfriend but not the complete committment? I feel like it's just easier to breakup than it is to get a divorce! But we already live together and have kids! Where do I go and what are we going to be?
2007-02-09 19:16:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could just try being engaged.
2007-02-09 19:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all when you're already doing all this, no a break up is not easier. You're not setting a good example for your children you're letting them think that it's okay for that. You're desire not to be married should have been decided before you tried to play house. You're as committed as you're going to be. I don't have advice for people like you, you're just immature.
2007-02-10 03:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really really love him you should get married to him! you can just have a small wedding on the beach or something! it will be nicer for your kids too! and you don't need to change your name!
2007-02-10 03:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by lela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋