i'm only sixteen so it might seem silly but i've been dissapointed like a million times too many when it comes to love the guys i like don't like me and it happens everytime so it kind of steps on any smidge of hope i have of finding someone i'm scared of liking guys because they never like me back i'm not sure what to do i'm lost i hate the feeling i get from being dissapointed it feels like i'm not wanted like i'm only good as a friend but i'm not girlfriend material for some reason and i can't figure out why i'm so confused. (whoever might read this it's not cause i'm guy crazy in fact i'm single i've been since like forever never had a real boyfriend) but i'm scared and lost and i just don't know where to go from here some advice would be nice to have so almost anything would help
2007-02-09 18:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by amuch2much 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to take a break from the male of the species for a while. Just decide that you don't need a boyfriend right now, and focus on other things. Become a better student. Become a better daughter. Get a job, or work in some volunteering. When you forget about yourself and this situation, and start focusing on other areas of your life, you may be surprised to find that someone wonderful is out there looking for someone just like you will have become.
2007-02-09 18:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie everyone wants to be wanted some way or another but don't let the fact that those high school boys don't go for you now. Just work on school and bettering yourself, boyfriends are a lot of work, more than most people can handle. So you're better off right now. When it's time don't worry you'll meet him he's out there. You could meet him when you least expect it. Don't let a few dumb guys take hope away from you, never lose hope honey that's all most people have. Hold on to your virginity don't just give it away to anyone, give that special gift to the man that loves you so much that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Worry about school right now. It'll work out for you hon, if you ever need to talk I'm here. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-10 02:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is perfect and there will always be something wrong with every relationship.
Example; Guy really loves one girl enough, and she loves him just as much, to considure marriage. However guy also loves another friend and is unsure if he should do anything and is stuck in the middle not being able to do anything.
Problem is that most likely, the guy will lose both girls.
2007-02-10 03:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a friend. I am a old girl 50yrs old but have travelled thru life doing it hard in many ways, but have learnt many things about life along the way. If you are on msn my add is judebear06@yahoo.com.au would love to chat. I live in Port Macquarie, where are you from
2007-02-10 02:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by judles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. You are young maybe the guys you are attempting to date are older then you and you lack maturity. Possibly they aren't attracted to you. There is too much guessing to give u a solid answer. The best thing to do is not worry about it. Be yourself and you will haven plenty of guys hit on you and want to be with you.
2007-02-10 02:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by x_ampz_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only sixteen. don't be all depressed. as long as you are yourself, you will find somebody who likes you. That sounds oprahish but it's true. but you can't look down on yourself. Life is beautiful, so live it that way.
I don't even know if that last line makes sense.
2007-02-10 02:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by SickThaScholar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem like you did growing the guys i had like didnt like me, and the ones that i thought werent worth my time are the ones that did like me.Your still young there is plenty of guys out there believe, once you get to college there is a lot to choose from.
2007-02-10 02:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by enchanted_dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO me a favor. WORK on your self. IMPROVE YOUR SELF. YOU CAN LIVE WITH OUT A MAN. when your least looking and your so happy then you will find him.
2007-02-10 02:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong that what you are thinking about you. Ok ?
2007-02-10 02:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by imtiaz7circle c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋