2007-02-09 18:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by movingmindz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should feel upset hurt and u should try 2 forget bout her u and go on go on 2 someone who really cares bout u!
2007-02-09 18:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by HomeGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.There isn't a sure-fire way to mend a broken heart but there are definitely things you can to do to make it feel a bit lighter and ready for new love. First, allow yourself to feel what you need to and take all the time in the world to get over the person. For some people it may only take a few weeks to move on and others years. However long it takes, be okay with that. You can't live your life in the past, waiting for a second chance to do things differently. Doing so is only taking you away from experiencing things that could be better. Don't be scared to give love another try.So, you've found out that Mr. or Miss Right isn't the soul mate you've always dreamed about. Now what? The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas.Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy going out. Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! Try anything from bicycling, joining a walking club, sewing, bodyboarding or surfing, learning how to watercolor, or cooking.Best Wishes
2007-02-09 19:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not supposed to feel any particular way. You need to just go with what you're feeling and ride the tide until the hurt stops being so bad. It's of course natural to be hurt, but don't surpress that -- feel it, let it run its course, and then try to focus on happy things in your life, like friends, relatives, hobbies, whatever. And remember most of all she was using you, so don't cry too much over losing a *****.
2007-02-09 18:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by FKC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used and relieved. Now you know better, and you know the signs. Thank them and move on, they may have wasted your time but not too much was lost. Besides you can never put a price on a life lesson that needed to be learned. I wish you all the best sweetie!
2007-02-09 18:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just move on..at least you know what's her true color is. Everything happens for a reason so be positive, I'm sure in the near future you'll gonna meet someone else better than her. This is your lesson in love so next time be more cautious. Good luck...
2007-02-09 22:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume that you broke up with her because you finally realized that she was not worthy of your love. how you are supposed to feel is this- it is how you are feeling. there is no exact way you are supposed to feel. now i will tell you how you might feel a few weeks from now-if you are smart, any hurt you still feel will start to gradually fade ,as the strong,self- preservative ,proud and confident part of you starts to slowly take over and kick the hurt you feel to the curb. best wishes
2007-02-09 19:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, it seems like you loved her for her attitude, looks or something in that line. and she loved you for money, or what ever you think she was using you for. But if you want some answers, put more info down ok hon?!
My advise, try talking out your problems with her or someone you are close to. It always helps to let it out to someone else besides yourself.
2007-02-09 18:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by fluffy200435 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely the 1st element you would be able to desire to do is to make your descion are you going to be along with her or no longer?, if so then be along with her, if no longer then it is going to be solid for you interior the long-term this female has disrespected your thoughts and has for sure harm you much. it is going to be confusing to recover from this female, via fact it replace right into a harsh wreck up along with her. loose the touch along with her or heavily tell her which you do in contrast to/love her in that way and additionally tell her fairly sparkling to no longer touch your dates or ect. the explanation why you have objectives approximately her via fact she is often on your strategies and while think of. you would be able to desire to come again obtainable possibly have a pair of hookups with another women until you sense that your completely waiting to circulate on. additionally, take a sparkling activity or initiate strolling. strolling or working releases the strain out of your physique. Now undergo in strategies you have been a solid boyfriend on your ex female chum, so there's a particular female obtainable for you. solid good fortune!
2016-11-03 01:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you want to avoid letting that happen again. Find a counselor to talk to, or start reading about the dynamics of relationships, dating, finding the right partner/mate.
Sorry that happened to you, I know what it feels like. :(
2007-02-09 18:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember next time that the only person you can depend on is yourself because at one point in time the perso you depend on is going to be gone
2007-02-09 18:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by renne w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋