First off, stop taking birth control pills. That will harm the baby. You need to tell this guy. You both were adult enough to have sex and having sex comes with risks. Now you need to be mature enough to face your problems.
If you have an abortion, that needs to be your choice. Your bf can't make you do it and anyone on Yahoo! Answers can't help you with that. That is a huge choice and you need to be sure that you're making the right choice. You're the only one who has to deal with it in the long run.
You can't run from this. You need to get out of your own head and stop thinking of yourself and if your bf is going to be mad at you. You have a child to think about now. It's time to grow up. It's BOTH of your faults that this has happened. He didn't force you to have sex and neither of you took precautions. Birth control is not 100%. Nothing is.
People have children everyday. Lots of them are unplanned too. It happens. If your bf freaks, oh well. When you have sex, you take the risk that something like this can happen. Stop being a child and tell him. You also need to start going to the doctor to check up on the baby. Like I said, stop thinking of yourself. You can't be selfish anymore. There's a baby depending on you now.
Whatever your choice is, you need to be secure in it. You're getting far along in your pregnancy and you need to realize that you can't abort a child after a certain amount of time. I think it might be too late for that option actually. Talk to your parents about this and let your bf know too. It's not the end of the world. You're not the first person who this has happened to and you're not the last. You're no longer a child, stop trying to hide and own up to the fact that this has happened.
2007-02-09 18:49:47
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answered by Anonymous
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OMG, you need to tell your parents immediately. DO NOT hurt the baby. You are too far along to abort this child legally. If you hurt the baby, you will be up for murder charges. If you bring the baby to full term you can drop it off at the hospital with no questions asked at most states without any prosecution. STOP taking the birth control pills IMMEDIATELY they could be hurting this child. If you cannot tell your parents, then you need to confide in someone. If you are in CA I can try to help you. It's noone's fault, things happen. I ended up pregnant before when I was fifteen. Things worked out. Say a prayer and ask for guidance and expect it to come your way. Believe
2007-02-10 02:47:04
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answered by Carrie 1
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its up to you i had an abortion at 17 too and i think it was the best thing for me but you are yer own person and do what you feel is best can you take care of a child on yer own will you be able to pay for the thing that child will need if not then do what is best for you the birth control is harming yer baby this problem can be resolved and if you do feel like you have to get it aborted then thats ok its yer choice but their is a time limit and you need to see if its not to late
2007-02-10 02:56:25
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answered by cilla1a 2
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5 months is way too late. You screwed up real bad. No doctor is going to abort that baby now. Take care of yourself. Go to a doctor and get good advice.
Have the baby and give it up for adoption or something. You really are a stupid idiot for forgetting to take your pills. It's not an accident. It's sheer stupidity on your part and you need to step up and be responsible.
Please please please do not try to abort it. At 5 months, you have a living breathing child inside you. You will be killing someone. Have the baby and give it up for adoption.
2007-02-10 02:51:56
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answered by Sax M 6
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look you have to tell him. if he wants you to abort him, tell him no, then dump him. go through with the pregnancy. a sin can never be corrected by another sin.
stop the pill already. it will harm the baby. you will just regret it if you abort it. and it will just do you more harm in the future. especially psychologically.
i also thought of telling my gf to abort the baby before. but now that he's two years old. it makes me cry everytime i think about thinking of aborting him before. he's my bestfriend. actually i'm closer to him now that i am to my wife.
2007-02-10 02:46:27
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answered by Coolitz 4
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think about what you want to do, not what other people want you to do. they may be trying to help you but in the end, it's what they want, what about you? have you spoken to your parents at all? don't run away and hide because a lot of ppl will be worried for you. don't keep taking the pills because it could end up damaging your unborn baby. if you want somebody to talk to here's my email ok? baby_cool20042003@yahoo.com.au
2007-02-10 02:42:57
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answered by trace s 3
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dont run from this situation,go and see a doctor first.you are playing with your life.
2007-02-10 02:45:56
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answered by ANU U 5
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BE BRAVE AND TELL HIM.
2007-02-10 02:39:35
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answered by Anonymous
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