2007-02-09 18:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by Nee-Nee J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop sleeping with them then!
problem solved !
worked for me
2007-02-09 18:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on your relationship, if you stop sleeping with these men they won't feel like that because you won't have given them anything but your time and love. Once you tell someone that you love them, basically they do own you. You become their slave and they become yours but if your relationship isn't one that you've both decided is going somewhere and the goal is to spend the rest of your life together, then you're wasting your time anyway. You shouldn't feel like he thinks he owns you.
2007-02-10 02:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think most guys feel that once you made a commitment then in a way you are theirs because you are no longer available.
And to some degree it is a good thing because it means they really care about you...unless they take it to another level by not letting you talk to any other guys then thats just weird and obbsessive.
2007-02-10 03:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men love posessions. Everything they get is their property. If your boyfriend feels like he owns you, chances are he cares about you or he knows that he doesn't want to lose you. He may feel like he has too good of a girl to lose. Now it's the other feeling of posession you need to look out for. If he's too posessive, or jealous, or mean, or violent, run girl! Haul a**
2007-02-10 02:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are very jealous and somewhat controlling...no offense to all the male readers..but it's not their fault its in there nature......once they've got you...there more insecure then most women about losing you...so they feel they have to keep you close and deture you away from other men.... just talk to him... tell him that your with him and only him..and that you need your freedom too.... depending on his ego.... he should understand... just be cool about it and don't make a huge deal of it
2007-02-10 02:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Erica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea what is up with that?
I think guys egos go wayyyyy up in they are in a relationship. Their probably so surprised that someone even likes them, they just go crazy and act like an a**.
2007-02-10 02:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Melli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nature.. dont you feel like you own him after that ? It only shows the amount of happiness and care that he has for u.
2007-02-10 02:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy who thinks they own you, isnt a true, respectful boyfriend. i would break up with him if that happened to me. just find a guy who likes to hang with you and is really sweet, and makes you feel comfortable around him, dont go with some guy who makes you feel owned, or unconfortable.
2007-02-10 02:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by •♥•vballsweetie•♥• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys do, i dont its the guys who get too jelous about things with you, i would rather have a girl want to own me its kinda kinky in a way but i love a women in control
2007-02-10 02:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are big scared jerks....get rid of him,
You're too good for him!
2007-02-10 02:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋