I think the thing that sotped me from cutting myself for a bit was i saw my D.R today.He helped me with my madz.I told him that i Dont realy eat so he helped me with that too....But the cutting..yeh umm i didnt say to much about that i thougt i'd be ok now.i'm not i want to cut myself so bad right now!Why? i thougt i'd be ok.Why do i want to go back to that?When i want to cut this bad i go for a walk but i think my love ones would be freaked out if i just go for a walk at 10:50 at night.so what eles can i do to help me out for once??
2007-02-09 18:01:19 · 11 answers · asked by xo 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you should have told your doctor, you should have told him everything. there must be something that makes you want this pain. What it is? What is it that makes you yearn for pain? I know it must be tough but you have to realize that life is taking advantage of you. life is what you make it. life is clay. you can mold that clay to be happiness and love. why mold it into razorblades and fire? take control and tell your life "let's do this, let's win, let's f*ck sh*t up."
2007-02-10 06:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by The Watched 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister cut herself for years. She told me she started it when she was 14. I never knew it until about year ago when she nearly died. I asked her why and her response was "Cutting myself gives me power and makes me feel like I am in control of my life. When the pain inside won't go away; I just cut myself to help me forget that pain." I cried and gave her a hug and told her I loved her very much. I don't know if she still does it but I always tell her I love her and try to be the best support I can be. My sister is turning 40 soon and I am not so sure she has stopped cutting herself. All I can do is be there when she needs to talk and pray that I don't have to see her lying in a hospital bed on death's doorstep again.
2007-02-10 03:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, when a person is "cutting" it's because they have some pain (emotional) inside them so bad, that they do this to try to relieve that inward pain. Can your dr. refer you to a good counselor? Does your dr. have an answering service you can call 24 hrs a day? If needed, please do so. Or, if your area has a care crisis line, you could call them. Bst not to go for a walk at this time of night. Do you have a good book you could read for a while? Do you do crocheting, needlepoint, knitting, etc.? That would be a physical activity for you to do as opposed to a walk. Please, try to get your mind off of whatever is hurting you inside. Do you have a friend you could call anytime? Maybe call this friend. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-02-10 02:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything but that. Read a book, watch a movie, try to go to sleep, call a friend and talk, talk to a family member until ur so tired. Make a cup of tea or warm milk or hot cocoa and watch a good tv show. If you cant get your mind off it, think how horrible this act really is and u dont want to do this to yourself, you and your body is worth so much more. Respect yourself and your body, only you can protect yourself, do it for yourself!!!. And tomorrow call your doctor asap and tell him whats going on. God bless.
2007-02-10 02:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by maria s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do dishes, clean your room, WRITE
that's what i used to do to get over it
write about ANYTHING
Every good or bad thing i thought about i would write down in a notebook....it was actually how i stopped doing it all together. It's been 5 years since, and i still write, even though i don't have the urge any more, i still think writing was my cure.
2007-02-10 02:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need 2 feel pain to know u still r around...u r not getting the right attention from your parents r loved ones...u really need to open up 2 your d.r. start a journal and every time u feel this way ..write whatever comes to mind until that feeling goes away...I'm with ya sweety.....please take my advice!!
2007-02-10 02:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by melissa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need Spiritual help and you can email me at newbegin@shaw.ca if you care to. In the meantime read the Bible. The Gospel of St. John in the New Testament. I will be praying for you.
2007-02-10 02:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by elptl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all in your head doll. i use to think i was sick all the time. though i know im not i guess i talk my self into it. i tell my self am i crazy im not sick. then i think well yeah im crazy. no i am not sick . lol also talk to god. hes been a great help in my life. also u can send me a message if u need any coaching.
2007-02-10 02:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by ohmydrpepper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to bed and watch TV
2007-02-10 02:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW IT TAKES ALLOT UNDERSTANDING TO BE SO AT EASE TO WONT TO DIE !I COULDN'T HARDLY DISAGREE THEIR BECAUSE I'M NOT TO HAPPY WITH THIS WORLD NEITHER BUT I STAY WITH UNDERSTANDING BECAUSE I FEEL IF IT REALLY IS TIME FOR ME TO DIE IT WOULD HAPPEN WHEN I LEAST EXPECT IT SO I FIND IT MORE INTERESTING TO HEAD THE CHALLENGE AND WAIT FOR DESTINY "HAY BESIDES DIEING RIGHT NOW WOULD BE BORING DO NT YOU THINK?
2007-02-10 02:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋