Why can't he understand?

Question

I am trying to still be friends with him because I do really care but we can't be together. Now I have a new BF and after I got back from the beach with my new BF the guy gave me amessage on my IM F you and F your mother. Why can't he understand because he also knows we can't be together it really hurt me. He is 15.

Why does he have to be so mean to me?

Answer 1

Why on earth do you need to ask a question like this?

You are worth more than to be with someone that would text you to F**** yourself and your Mom, for crissake.

He is just a boy at 15, but you need to run away. Far and Fast. Maybe he will learn, maybe he won't, but you do NOT need to be his testing ground now.

Go out into the world and find someone that treats you like you deserve to be treated.

Go on, we'll wait. ;)

Answer 2

Why? Cause he's an immature 15 year young boy who needs to lash out at someone. He's acting rotten because he can't get what he thinks he wants. It hasn't sunk in that he needs to move on. Understanding is an adult trait; one that he hasn't picked up on. Only time will tell if he will ever catch on. So for now your best bet is to block all your incoming messages. Caring about him is fine and dandy, but if he continues to act this way you have every right to cut all ties with him. You don't need this selfish form of abuse; not from him or anyone. Instead, stop being too concerned with him and get on with living your life. Stop feeling hurt by his crass actions. He is only hurting himself and making the situation worse. If this is the way he deals with adversity then he will make people end up hating him.

Answer 3

Hi whenthephone,

He got angry with you because he felt that you played him. You want to just be good friends was giving him mixed signals. Sometimes it's better to make a clean break of it.

That leaves him free to look elsewhere for a girl friend. You've got a boy friend, so leave him alone.

--Rick