Could he still have feelings for his ex, or does he maybe just want to be friends with her? They broke up many years ago, why is he contacting her now then?
2007-02-09 17:55:45 · 11 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can go either way....he COULD still have feelings for her...or he COULD just miss her friendship and talk about old times or whatever. I wouldn't stress over it if it was my bf unless he gave me a reason to....like lie about it.
2007-02-09 18:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by yo_matilda_yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I contacted my ex and I have a boyfriend. Even though they broke up many years ago, he could just want some closure from her.Maybe they ended things badly and he wants to get back on good terms. That's the reason why I contacted my ex, I no longer have feelings for him but I needed closure on our relationship and I feel much better. Now we're friends but my boyfriend doesn't like that.
2007-02-09 18:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by cutet88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I don't know about emailing the ex. There is a such thing as remaining friends with your exes, but it's really not that common. I chose to remain friends with all of my exes. The problem is, they don't want to be my exes. They only want to be friends because they think it will BENEFIT them. I guess it also depends on what he's sending to her. He may just want to check up on her. And sweetie, just cause they "broke up years ago" or stopped dating doesn't mean they stopped.
2007-02-09 18:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is o.k. for men/women to speak with exes...HOWEVER, it does depend on what the contents of the emails are. Don't snoop to see, that would make you the bad guy (I'm sure that thought crossed your mind, but who knows) anyway, I decided 10 years ago after my first wife burnt my address book that had friends in it from school, the navy, other states etc...I decided that if I was EVER with someone who wanted to ask me to remove anyone in my life that felt some degree of love for me, I should consider removing that person.
If you love someone, you should want them to have people in their life that love them as well...platonic love of course. Exes are fine usually. They aren't together for a reason, but they want to maintain friendship and good terms. If you broke up with this guy for his annoying habits, you may still want to keep in contact with him for advice because he knows you well.
2007-02-09 18:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by moabmusher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the context of the messages. My ex husband and I are best friends and chat once every week to 10 days even though I live with my new bf. I want to know how his job is and how his life is going, how my old dog is, just blah blah blah. I have no romantic feelings for him or him for me.
2007-02-09 18:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi missd,
Some guys can stay friends with their X-girlfriends, while other guys don't want to have anything to do with their X. It depends on the kind of guy he is, and you should know what kind of guy he is, don't you?
E-mail isn't the same thing as going out for coffee, dinner, a movie, or vacationing in Las Vegas together. ;-) If it really bothers you, you should talk to him about it, if it's no big deal for you, then don't worry about it.
--Rick
2007-02-09 18:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on what its about. My wife has spoke with her ex husband on the phone, I don't mind because I know where her heart is. I suggest you either:
Find out what its about,
get over insecurity,
mind your own business and trust him
2007-02-09 18:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by gms9810 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably she used the lunch date to get some closure. you've done the right element by technique of sending some texts, yet go away the ball in her court now. be sure she would not use you everytime something is going incorrect inclusive of her modern-day boyfriend.
2016-11-26 20:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he hiding it from you? if so then there is definately something going on if not then maybe they are just friends but i would keep my eyes and ears open on this one!!
2007-02-09 18:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by kimpossible 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO HES A PLAYER
2007-02-09 18:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by damienmob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋