What's a good classy way to move to the next stage with a woman?

Question

I know, that kind of sounds like an oxymoron but I don't think it has to be. But you know what I'm getting at.....how you move from "small talk" to "bigger" talk without sounding like a crude idiot with no class. But there's a fine line, you also can't be too much of a gentlemen or you'll come off as having no guts. I'm having trouble finding the happy medium and would appreciate any advice here.

Answer 1

"You know what I'm getting at....."

No--I don't. If you're talking about getting to first base, you ARE a "crude idiot with no class", even a Neanderthal. Are you wanting a woman to occupy your bed or a wonderful gal that is going to produce your 14 offspring?

There is no fine line when it comes to a gentleman.

Answer 2

Allow me to define the difference between "small" talk and "bigger'' talk. The line is SEX. Small talk consist of the weather and things that are the same to anyone in a given situation. Bigger talk can, but is not enclusive to, conversation ragarding future plans and the like. Sex, however seems to transend all the boundaries set forth by the rational mind. Sex involves too many parts of one's brain to allow either small talk or bigger talk to matter. A person can't tell anything from the inside of their own mind that will allow anything meaningfull to grow. But isn't that how it works? Isn't it that when one feels close to another? When they provide the "missing pieces"?

You're correct, in life a man is expected to be the aggressor but in society he is not. The basis for this analysis comes down to what sort of man you want to be. There is for certain a woman who wants a gentleman "." No doubt about it, but it's like a rap song goes... "a lady in the street but a freak in the bed" Perhaps you could be an animal for a woman in the security of your home and a sweet romeo infront of her friends. No matter what is right you have the knowledge needed to win a woman's heart... albeit too early. I wish upon you the dedication that I know. For the first time in my life I suggest an inner peace prior to an exterior love. I am running out of room and will get off my high horse but I stand firm that your love is worthwhile. Best Wishes

Answer 3

You should play it by ear. Listen to what she's telling you. Watch her body language. Just pay attention and let her know you're interested without being overbearing or stifling, and she will take the lead. Women like to talk about their feelings; "How do you feel about this or that?", etc. You sound like a very decent guy, by the way! Good luck!

Answer 4

soft and sweet, that's how we like it !!

just lean in and give her a sweet light kiss that will make her melt !!

ps.. don't do it if her last name is frosty
or she'll literally melt!

lmaooooo !