2007-02-09 17:33:26 · 15 answers · asked by shruti d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Just relax and enjoy!
2007-02-09 17:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to calm down. If you are nervous the first time, it will hurt. Relax. Have you told your fiance that you are nervous? How can you make it through the rest of your life, if you don't let him know how you are feeling. This is a good time (before the wedding) to talk about this. Not that night. Plan what the two of you will be doing. By doing this it may calm your fears.
Just remember the word RELAX.
Congratulations on your wedding and may you have many wonderful years of marriage.
2007-02-09 18:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by wedding planner tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that you're talking about what happens after the wedding and all the guests are gone..there is a little pain but nothing you can't handle (if it were, then we'd all be virgins). It's hard to describe what it feels like...you won't cry or anything like that and it's over in a few minutes. Some people bleed a few drops of blood, but you may not - I didn't notice it when I did until I went to the bathroom afterwards and it was nothing...sort of like the days preceeding your period. You won't need a pad or tampon or anything.
2007-02-10 02:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about sex or the wedding. if its the wedding its going to be great some things will go wrong but not worry about it. but if your talking sex the big V losing well just relax and go with the flow and enjoy yes it will hurt for a bit but after the first time it will be great for sure if need be watch a few sex ed videos like college ones not grade school some would say watch porn but some pron will scare most first times off so ask friend and family you trust about the wedding night and what to exspect and talk to your hubby to be and tell him your fears and he will tell you it will be OK. so just relax its OK to fell this way. you will be OK.. have fun god bless happy blessings to you both..
2007-02-09 17:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by funluvcaring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont look at what you think is going happen, do have this visual plan in your head, it never works out that way. Just focus on your husband and laugh enjoy the night.
Let things just happen and if you feel uncomfortable with anything dont be scared to speak up.
Its not bad at all, the day will go by fast so enjoy every second.
2007-02-09 19:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your day - you're the star and you're going to be beautiful and have fun! Don't let anything ruin your day. There might be some little slip-ups, like someone might wear the wrong shoes, or the DJ's music will skip, or the cake is dry, but don't let it get to you. The important thing is that you're in love and you're getting married and your friends and family are there to help you celebrate!
2007-02-09 17:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hey hey! calm down dude. this happens to my cousins before, my oldest cousin was nervous for his wedding. so what he did was just talk it out with his friends and clam down.
2007-02-09 17:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be aftraid. Good Luck.
2007-02-09 18:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be gentle, dont feel nervous, just follow your instinct on what are you going to do next, it will goes out naturally
2007-02-09 17:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Let-let 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa....dont talk to us....talk to your fiance. Ask him about his fantasies. In the meantime, get some books on sex.
2007-02-09 17:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋