Help me, I am trying to get back with my girl, but she says she needs time to herslef...she has been beating me for 3 years now and I cazn't take it...Im feeling sore right now...please give me some advice!
2007-02-09 17:30:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude i am going to have to take away your man card ok a girl beats you you should feel gay
2007-02-09 17:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Perfection 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she needs some serious help. It's not right to let a girl beat on you just like it's not right to let a man beat on a woman. Why would you want that life back? I think you should try to move on and leave her alone. The situation is only going to get worse if you keep letting her treat you this way. I know you feel like you can't live without her right now but it's only because you feel low right now. She treats you like crap and you have to learn how to see that. Sorry you're going through this right now. Now is the time to get your life back.
2007-02-10 03:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight: You want to go back to a women who beats you. First I am sorry that this has happened to you, secondly: Are you nuts, this is a hard question to answer due to the fact that it is so dam funny. Move on before someone really gets hurt, the only time she should be beating you, is in the bedroom during sex.
2007-02-10 01:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you got some low self esteem if you want to get back with a girl who beats you. either that, or the sex is fabulous. Regardless, you need to get the hell out of there. Let her take this time to herself and you go take some time to yourself and rediscover who you are. No girl is worth the physical and emotional trauma you're going through.
2007-02-10 07:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by The Pilot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that.
Walk away. If you don't your a whimpy loser. It's called pride. Somebody has to teach her. Maybe just you wont do it. It'll take several men walking away to teach her. Unfortunitlly there's a whimp around every corner that'll take the abusse. This teach's her she can find another whimp. Be a man even if it hurts. Just be satisfied you did the right thing.
2007-02-10 01:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Grand Eminence 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she physically beats you, what you need to do is find another woman. One that doesn't beat you.
Hot tip: What are you doing that make her beat you not that there can be an excuse but philandering is not a good idea with some women.
2007-02-10 01:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all why would you what her back.. She is doing this to you.. I also think your confused or I am not reading your question right.. but in one sentence you say "you want her back" and in another you say "I you cant take it".. Well which one is it? You cant take being with out her or you cant take any of the beatings. My advise to you from someone who has been there get out.. I know it is easier said then done but trust me you will be OK with out her.
2007-02-10 04:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by MAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple advice: DON'T GET BACK WITH HER!!!!
for christ's sake, she's beating your ***!!! why the hell are you trying to get back with her? so she can finally beat you to the point of no return?
better yet, ask yourself why you have the need to come back to an abusive relationship. a relationship should be based on love... not whooping ***!!! that's like having the need to cross a street over and over knowing the cars can't see you... that's just asking to get hurt more and more.
2007-02-10 01:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by graciedai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of another situation like yours.My grandson was married to a girl like her.They are divorced now,but i have seen her hit him and she even took a ball bat and broke his car windows out.If you stay in an abusive relationship it will only get worse.
2007-02-10 01:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by zzum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know there are more than one woman in the world, right? What's the point of lingering for someone that doesn't want to be with you? Start loving yourself, man!
2007-02-10 01:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋