I'm so deep in this. I really, really care about him. I'm 15, hes 16. He just turned 16. Hes never had a girlfriend before, because hes Mormon, and im Baptist. My parents wont let me date for another year, and i really care about him though. I dotn know what to do... you may say I dont know what love is, but i think i do. You just get a better understanding of it as you get older. But this is so hard, so many differentiating factors, its hard. What to do?
2007-02-09 17:05:50 · 4 answers · asked by Regina H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus, my parents hate mormons.
2007-02-09 17:07:03 · update #1
I think waiting another year to date is good,but maybe you could go on a group date with him. Just go to the movies or dinner with him and some mutual friends. I can remember being 15 and caring about a boy. The truth is you may be "grown up" but you have the life experience of a 15 year old. I know it's rough, but sometimes parents know what they are talking about. As far as them not liking him because he is Mormon, would it be possible for him to come over to your house for dinner or maybe a short visit? That way they could get to know him. I'm a former Mormon, sometimes people hear things about the LDS people that aren't true. For the most part they are good people. I hope it all works out.
2007-02-11 11:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by MistyAnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has several stages. You are in the initial infatuation stage. That wears off in a week or a month or a year and then what is left is true love....or nothing.
You can't officially date, but you can hang out or do group things involving this guy right?
If you are still with the guy when you are allowed to date, make sure your parents get to know him as a person, harder to put negative labels on someone who is a person to you.
2007-02-10 03:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Mormon, and when I was in my teens I dated and had girlfriends that were of various religious backgrounds. For me, before I was able to "date," I would still hang out with girls or have a girlfriend. You know, chill at the mall, or at one of our house's, stick around after school, whatever.
Love is hard to figure out. I was in love a few times when I was in High School. The best thing is that this guy you like makes you feel good about yourself and about life. When your together, it seems like your worries aren't as important. I'm guessing it's something like that.
You have plenty of time. Just have good, clean fun with the guy. The best romantic relationships bloom best from friendships.
2007-02-11 14:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sergeant of Marines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's yur life isn't it?? i kno tht my parents don't like for me to go out wit boyz, but i'm really in luv wit this boy. if my parents kno about this, they'll kinda kill me. but i think tht the best thing to do is to talk about this wit the boy yu in luv wit or talk to yur parents by starting 'wht if i start dating someone tht is _____...' tht works for me bcauz my parents would have no idea but i could see wht they would do if i really perform tht action. sorry if i couldn't help yu much.
2007-02-10 03:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by goofy's child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋