if a some guy you don't know came up to you in public and started talking to you and you could tell he was attracted to you, because it's clear he was just making an excuse to talk to you, would you be offended and annoyed and tell him to buzz off or something OR would you take it as a compliment and be nice about it? answer honestly please. tell me your age with your answer also.
2007-02-09 16:57:12 · 9 answers · asked by ur_boyyy_jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in my mid-20's and I'm not currently single, so I'll go by what I use to do.
I've had a variety of guys approach me in bar and clubs in college and hit on me. Honestly, I look at what he looks like; if he's cute I might say something equally as cheesy back, as a joke to get the conversation going.
If the guy was unattractive or creepy, I would do a sarcastic laugh with a disgusted look on my face. A little cruel yes, but some of those creepy guys don't get the vibes. I'd rather be blunt, then have a creepy guy follow me around. If that didn't work, I would tell him I needed to use the bathroom; find my friends and we would find another part of the bar/club to hang out in. Or find some guys friends to be around.
2007-02-09 17:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm a guy, but it all depends on how a girl is being hit on. If a girl is younger, a nice guy will bore her, if a guy is an idiotic jerk, then normally he gets her number.
However, if a girl is older, like in her thirties, she is probably looking for an intelligent, decent man that is nice and has a good job. Just the opposite of what she looked for in high school.
2007-02-10 01:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Greg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 20 and it honestly deoends on the situation. If I'm on my thrity minute lunch break and someone is making small talk while I'm trying to get back to work. I may blow them off unless they reall intriuge me but if I have more time I at least flatter the guy with some small talk in return.
2007-02-10 01:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by lizko2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it when a guy comes and talks to me. as long as he doesnt come with some lame pick up line. & as long as he's a gentleman about it. i dont want to hear about what he does for a living or his life plan in the first 10 minutes of conversation. be polite, introduce yourself, and make small talk. maybe ask for my number. anything beyond that is annoying. .. i'm 23. =)
2007-02-11 05:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can get kinda annoying because well isn't there a less annoying way to tell a random girl you think shes hot? But it is sweet. my first boyfreind was awful at flirting with me so he had a friend do IT!
katlen lamb, 14
2007-02-10 01:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by danceaholic345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just tell them sorry and that I have a boyfriend. I found it kind of annoying because it kept happening, but it was also fun to know that people found me attractive. I'm 24.
2007-02-10 01:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends I would be nice about it,, but if he kept making them same compliments to everyone else I would tell him to buzz off, because he is most likey a player,,,lol and me 45 years young Muah!!!
2007-02-10 01:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by CrAzYlAdY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on if they started off in a dumb player guy sort of way, like sayin "hey baby" or crap like that, or if they came up & said something more generral & not so much like a pickup line.
2007-02-10 01:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me and i am flattered when it does. I am very nice about it. I'm 38
2007-02-10 01:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋