Well i ment this girl in real life when she was visting my friend. She lives in a different state so after she left we started talking over the internet and we became really close. She told me she like me over the internet and we saw each other like 3 other time after we ment. Then when she was down here one time she ment this other guy and she started going out with him and we stop talking. But now she moved here and she broke up with that guy she was going out with but we still don't talk that much. Im pretty sure she doen't like me anymore cause she beautiful and popular and well im not popular. We haven't talk for like 6 months and i still really like her and don't know what to do. I know this doesn't make sense but please give me advice i just really don't know what to do and im pretty sure she likes this other guy
2007-02-09 16:34:54 · 10 answers · asked by a guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do talk to her on aim once in a while but i have to start the converstaion and im a really shy guy and i just don't want to ask her out or anything like that because i think it would be weird if she said no and when ever we see each other in school and im scared of rejection
2007-02-09 16:35:13 · update #1
Don't be afraid of rejection. take a risk. go for it, you really like this girl. you'll be surprised of what shell say.
2007-02-09 16:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously liked something about you enough to talk to you for so long before. If she's not talking to you know, you have nothing to lose. She tunrs you down, you stop talking to her (again) and are exactly where you are now. But she might miss you, too, and she's just waiting for you to initiate something. In that case, you'll be really glad you took the chance. Just aim her often, tell her you want to keep in touch, and don't be afraid to say hi to her. You might not be as "popular," but she thought you were a great guy then, and her opinion probably hasn't changed.
2007-02-09 16:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I understand that you are shy...but, you have to try to get to know her again...maybe if you can call her on the phone..or email her...that might help you..for the initial stage of getting to know her all over again...but, after that...you have to try to actually talk to her face to face...maybe not around others...maybe you two could meet at a coffee shop or a park..and just "hang" out together..or take a walk or go some place....
Just let her know that you would like to be her friend again...
you could always send her a nice Valentine's Day card...with a little treat...ya know something like a small teddy bear...with a heart or a piece of candy with a saying on it..or something like a flower or whatever...just letting her know that you feel these nice feelings for her..and that you would truly like to be a good friend with her...
(The gifts can help....ya know....just a little like telling her, that she means something to you!)
2007-02-09 16:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude you can get anygirl to like you its just a matter of timeyou dont need to be popular to go out with some 1 im a 270 pound man and im gonna out with the most beautiful girl i ever saw and she weighs like 110 pounds and just try talking to her again and re light that candel
2007-02-09 16:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by kronik420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off it sounds like your better off but then again if you never ask her out u will never and dont worry about rejection we have all been through a least once or twice it is part of life you get kicked and then you get right back up and move on
2007-02-09 16:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your school work. Study hard. Go to a good Bible ( KJV ) church. Baptist. Work hard around the house for your parents. Start thinking what you want to do when you GROW up. Plan to go to college. And then, only then will it even be close to time for you to be thinking about dating.
2007-02-09 16:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by redbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you start the conversation then you aren't that shy. Ask her and quit being a pussy. If she doesn't respond to your advances, move on. Hopefully she feels the same way you do. If she doesn't leave her alone, and don't get psycho
2007-02-09 16:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by surfinnorcal77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out take a risk once in a while if she like you there you go your happy ending if she doesn't just move on
2007-02-09 16:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find a cute girlfriend.
2007-02-09 16:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
2007-02-09 16:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by xox1sexyangeloxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋