Is anyone else like this? I can't even imagine any guy liking me. Like, today my friend told me that someone used to Like my friend, and I would've neVER GuESSED THAT HE WOuld HAVE LIKED HER. EVEN thought it IS A BIG CHANGE i CAN"T EVEN IMAGINE anyone liking me. I think my friend used to like me, that is what everyonE Says, but NOW I DONT THINk he does. I just feel like no one likes me, even thOUGh people probably do. I mean, my friend who i have never thought of as a chick magnet has like 5 girls liking him. Does anyone feel like no one likes them? Advice?
2007-02-09 16:26:47 · 22 answers · asked by Camel Catcher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel the exact same way...but i just remind myself that someday, i'll find someone that has feelings for me (that I like back)...
2007-02-09 16:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by ashley_4dogs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop this ****! do it now! Who is like you or better than you? No one...truly, because you can only be who you are...trying to do anything else is being less than authentic...the real answer is love yourself...everyone says that crap but no one ever explains it when it seems like such a mystery.
it is not. imagine in life if you could have stopped before you ever said anything. anything at all. and you could have thought..."why am I saying this"
it is not to determine whether you are right or wrong. Part of the problem is that you are asking what is wrong with you...you do not see what is right and you do not have the present capacity to see the difference because you are comparing yourself to someone else...you cannot be them...if you try...you make who you are and your life a complete and utter lie...
you have not taken stock in what you are, who you are...you are far from it...the first step is to stop all the crap...the nonsense...instead of forcing yourself to be anything at all...just look...watch even, who you are and how you are feeling now...you cannot change the past...you cannot predict the future but you can make the most of today by stopping this garbage and taking stock in the one person who you can improve upon...and that is you...
oddly, the more honest you are with yourself, the more genuine you are...it does blow women away when you don't need them to complete you...most of the time, they are looking for something other than a penis to give them a sense of who they are, but they sure will try anything to do so...you are probably looking at the wrong girls anyways..best to start with the ones you are able to talk to...as you...honestly, earnestly without game, without fronting...in the end, they will mess up...they will run off half the time...but the ones who really value integrity...they will stick...anything else is really a waste of your precious time and life's importance, which you have not paid much attention to as of yet.
2007-02-10 00:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by groundpole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was having the same feelings like you . As few people and one of my good friend told me that no girl will ever like you. You can understand how I would be feeling at that time. And its very difficult to come out of these negative feelings.I was never thinking to be loved by someone but it happened. Today I got a nice girl who loves me a lot and we are going to marry soon. Thanks God it happen to me. And If it can happen with me , it can happen to you also.
What I have felt is that there are certain things on which we have no control. Instead of thinking about those things we need to look on those things where we can improve ourself. There is someone made for everybody.
So be positive and I assure you that you will got your love soon...
2007-02-10 01:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by @rrsu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im just going to tell you the truth....its harsh but I had to do the same thing and the minute i did guys actually started liking me...seriosly and i was like WHOA! well before i never use to care aobut the way I look i just brushed my hair back dressed like w/e the hell i wanted to dress in, and went off to skool...in middle school i liked this guy n i heard he was telling people i was going out with him so I went up to him one day asked him n he said "no why would i like you..no offense tho" and that was the last day of school and I was totally crushed.soon after i moved to australia and decided to get a little more work on my looks like fixing my hair so it look nice. then about 2 year later i started really having my hair nice and wearing normal clothes but they were nice....and after that ...BAM! thats when the guys started cuming plus i was older and my looks started developing into moremature looks...soo if u really wanna have guys liking you try to improve ur look and ur personality make sure ur not a stuck up loud annoying b itc h cuz guys hate that...just go with the flow and be relaxed and sweet n soon guys willl be cumin outta no where
2007-02-10 00:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think like this it will happen that way. You gotta out that vibe out there that you dont give a damn if anyone likes you or not. You are you, and that shold be satisfying. Friends will come and can bve an added bonus. You have to love yourself first or no one can love you
TRUE
2007-02-10 00:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by surfinnorcal77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody feels like that at times. the reason is if we are single and dont like ourselves then we feel unloved by others. stay calm, talk to friends, even ask the guy out and see what happens. if it doesnt work out then try looking around. i bet there is at least one person who is in love with you and you havent noticed him yet.
2007-02-10 00:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think that way hun...somethings happen with time and i understand how frustrating this can be but go with the flow of life and it will lead you to someone you like....look at the positive side...so many guys and girls these days judt play you out..maybe you're fate has someone special in store for you so smile and cheer up and enjoy your life :)
2007-02-10 00:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Tidus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes someone will like you. Lots of people. You just have to wait. I had to wait what seemed like forever. But when I finnally took the chance, and told a guy I liked I liked him, he told me he liked me to. He ended up being my first love. And when you do find that someone it will be wonderful.
2007-02-10 00:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by Simple Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with someone (not here). You are suffering low self image and esteem. Find a good counselor or someone you trust. Until you like yourself and feel that you are a worthy person, no one else will think you are.
2007-02-10 00:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do , and it sucks , but when i needed a friend they were there ffor me so dont worry things will get better , no one goes through life without friends only if they dont want them, or try,and if you do try and they turn you down, oubli lui (forget them), and try again.trust me it worked for me. and plus i like you,,,, (but not like in a wierd way.) LOVE YA!!!!!!!
2007-02-10 00:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by sherry h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
camel catcher?!? where did you ever come up with that one...anyway.........you will be ok, don't rush it.......and don't let anyone tell you no one likes you, because they have no idea who likes who anymore than you do...........just because you do not have a girlfriend does not mean there is someone not looking at you..........you would be suprised who likes you, all you have to do is pay attention...........and be patient
2007-02-10 00:32:45 · answer #11 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋