well,there is this guy at school that I have liked for a long time but he just dont pick up the hints! I flirt, talk to him, give him advice, and answer ever question he throughs at me (social questions)!!! What do I do! HELP
2007-02-09 16:25:29 · 18 answers · asked by Lizzie(hannah) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh he picks up the hints- he's not stupid. But he's just not that into you. Sorry. He knows- he's ignoring it. Move on.
2007-02-09 16:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Body Language. Be subtle;don't worry, he'll get it.
Mimic his positions about 30 seconds after he changes them. This lets him know you are paying close attention to him.
Hold eye contact for no more than 2-3 seconds. You don't want to be intimidating.
When sitting with your legs crossed, point your knees and foot towards him. DO NOT cross your foot under your leg.
Twirl or stroke your hair just a little.
Every once and a while, put one arm across your chest to emphasize your breasts. Don't do it too much or with both arms, though. He may take it as a signal that you're afraid of him.
Most important, don't follow him around. Have fun with your own friends. Stay cool and relaxed, and he'll go for you.
2007-02-09 17:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by greyeyedgodess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who is desperate to have a boyfriend will try to make friends with several guys and won't be selective about who she wants to be friends with.
To avoid looking desperate, all you need to do is make the guy feel special. Ignore other guys as much as you can and tell the guy you like how much better he is than other guys in all the qualities you like about him.
If he is polite, then tell him how much better he is than all the other guys who use swear words. If he doesn't smoke and doesn't get drunk, then tell him how much better he is than all the other guys who smoke and get drunk. If he gets good marks in school, then tell him how much better he is than all the other guys who just scrape by with barely passing marks. And so on.
After telling him all this, you will make yourself look very selective about the kind of guys you like. And you will let him know in no uncertain terms that he is the special one whom you are selecting to like.
By rejecting so many other guys, you will make yourself look the opposite of desperate. And at the same time you will tell him that you really like him.
2007-02-09 16:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid seeming desperate stop flirting and just ask him out and say it is strictly just two friends going to see a movie etc. *wink* *wink*
After which, and this part depends on if you saw a romantic comedy or saw 2...
if it wasnt an action movie or horror movie
give him a tight hug and thank HIM for taking YOU out.
... Hey, it worked on me ...
2007-02-09 16:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by TheEarthBoundEnigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay real calm, he'll eventually come around and take take notice. I'm was in the same boat. Guess what, he's now taking notice big time!!! He's now into some serious conversations with me. I've even revealed to him my age and all and he doesn't care about the age difference. He's still into me. Just wait it out my dear, I tell you he will come around. Just trust me on this, I promise!!
2007-02-09 16:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five question marks implies "desperate" to me.
Calm down.
Guys like what they think they can't get.
2007-02-09 16:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he might not like you if ur showing him the signs...alll guys love it wen a grl flirts with them but if its not doing anything then maybe he just doesnt liek you and ur not his type only a good friend in his eyes and he doesnt want to tkae it any further ..u cant make a guy like it seriosly almost impossible u just ahve to let it happen usually wen u dnt liek them anymore they start liking you lol
2007-02-09 16:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are alone tell him how you feel and see what his answer is,if he doesn't respond there is your answer. If he does you can go from there. Life is too short to live with regret, take care Heather
2007-02-09 16:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did it occur that you may be on the fat side and he is not interested in you because you are too fat for him. That is one reason he may not take a hint.
What if he is gay, or maybe he is interested in your gf that is with you instead. Then on the other hand some guys you have to hit them on the hand before they take a hint.
Ask one of your gf that knows him to find out if maybe he is interested in someone else.
2007-02-09 16:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Big C 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
welll, he may b sending u the same signals, and not notice it. he may think the same exact thing. or he finds u as a great friend. the only way to know is ask. ask him out......or if he just plain out likes u.
2007-02-09 16:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by book worm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋