I HAVE HAD SO MUCH DRAMA IN MY LIFE WITH MY X BF . I HAVENT TALKED TO HIM IN OVER THREE WEEKS AND HE CALLED ME LAST NIGHT YELLING AT ME FOR NO REASON....
THEN ITS LIKE EVERYTIME I MEET SOMEONE NEW. IT TURNES INTO A DISASTER. ONE GUY TOLD ME HE WAS GETTING ATTACHED AND I ONLY SAW HIM TWICE. THERE IS ANOTHER GUY WHO JUST WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH ME.. AND IM TIRED OF BEING SOMEONES FLOOR MAT. AND THERE IS ANOTHER ONE WHO IS IN IRAQ THAT I LIKE SO MUCH BUT DONT KNOW WHAT ITS GOING TO BE LIKE WHEN HE COMES HOME. I MET HIM THROUGH MY BROTHER WHO IS IN IRAQ WITH HIM. SO ITS BEEN OVER THE INTERNET. WEB CAM AND PHONE CALLS...
I CANT EVER SEEM TO GO OUT WITH OUT RUNNING INTO MY X. HE HAS A STIRING PROBLEM.. HE LIKES STAIRING AT ME ALL NIGHT. BUT IM SO CONFUSED. I JUST NEED A BREAK FROM GUYS....
I HAVENT SLEPT WITH ANY OF THESE GUYS.... IM SEEKING OPTIONS IM NOT LOOKING FOR A BED TO LAY IN JUST TO GO HAVE A GOOD TIME.... USUALLY WITH MY BESTFRIEND.
2007-02-09 16:16:52 · 10 answers · asked by aleisha21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly what you're talking about. Maybe you just have to take a break, get some guy friends. Get to know yourself and what you truly like/dislike and want in a guy. Once you become secure in who you are guys who just want to get in your pant will steer clear because they'll know what you want. You are almost putting yourself out there as desperate because you think you need a guy. Sorry, but there's no such thing as a perfect guy. You just have to tell yourself and learn "I am a strong, independent woman and I don't need a man to complete me" When you figure that out and you become a strong independent woman who knows what she wants guys will see that and the right one will come along.
good luck!
2007-02-13 16:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, haven't I been here before! If I was you, and i've had to do this plenty of times. Tell your ex to leave you alone & that you are trying to move on with your life! You will find a decent guy out there. You might have to date around to find the right one. Guys are complicated pieces of work thats for sure! But as for your ex, he does not sound to nice. & if I were you. I would stay far away from him and make sure you lay the law down to him about how you feel and what he's doing!
2007-02-09 16:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex to get a life and if he keeps harassing you, call the cops. That's simple to deal with. He's your past, stop giving him attention. If he calls, hang up. Don't listen to his crap at all. Let him stare at you. You can't control what he looks at so just ignore that and have a good time.
As far as the other guys, men (or anyone for that matter) will only treat you as badly as you let them. Have respect for yourself and if someone hurts you once, bail. Don't stick around to be a part of their game. If you demand respect, you will get it. You can't force anyone to respect you or treat you right but you can sure as hell get those people who don't out of your life.
I can't tell you which guy to pick out of all the ones you mentioned. The only thing you can do is just give it time and see which relationship is actually real and has a fighting chance of surviving.
2007-02-09 16:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at all these guys, they have something in common that they are attracted to you. If you can identify this trait, you can change it for the better. Give up on guys for awhile and take a break, your life will NOT end by not having a guy around.
2007-02-09 16:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all we get the point so no need to type in all CAPS...just hang out with your friends and if i was you id wait to see what your brothers friend could be like for all you know he might be the man of your dreams
2007-02-09 16:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by amber j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun with your gal friends and tell all guys to blow off! This sounds just like my cousin, she is a bu!!sh!t magnet. If nothing else, just stay in, and invite your friends over to hang out until things die down.
2007-02-09 16:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your telephone number! Think about moving. Forget about the geek . Go to church Sunday. God will bring some new Christian man into you life!
2007-02-09 16:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first off your going after the wrong guys. You have to admit we all go after the bad guys then get mad when the hurts and guys just like to piss girls off because thee think we are cute when we are mad
2007-02-09 16:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u have a problem.. You just need to use ur head
2007-02-09 16:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋