She visits him because she says he is helping her with a project. She continues to hold hands and kisses him as a friend. I caught them together at a concert and she admitted to having unprotected sex with him.
2007-02-09 16:15:18 · 33 answers · asked by Aout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let her go if thats the case. it might be hard to do but it will be the best thing for in you in the end. if she is your ex already and it still bothers you that she goes out with some other guy, maybe the best thing under the circumstances is really just to "quit cold turkey". no communications in the meantime.
2007-02-09 16:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A) you at the instantaneous are not insecure. B) You did not marry a guy - you married a participant. He may seem as if a guy, screw like a guy and communicate like a guy, yet he's not a guy. he's a teen. once you get married, you're meant to burn your list of previous fans (for them immature sufficient to have the list interior the first position), and placed them interior the previous. C) This guy you married has both cheated already, or he is going to. that's purely a count of time ... D) once you get married, interior the vows area of the ceremony, there should be something about " ... leaving behind all others ..." and " ... what has been joined today, allow no man or woman placed asunder ..." those 2 issues propose that you at the instantaneous are not meant to have any emotional/actual attachments as well your significant different, and that no man or woman ought to come between you 2. He must have forgotten that area. E) you should decrease the upward push, drop the hammer, placed your foot down and factors him a call: You, or her. AND propose IT ! i comprehend ... 'do not supply me an ultimatum' is likely what he will say, and admittedly, that's such bullsh*t. he's the guy who's being unfaithful by technique of mendacity to you, and providing you with no peace of innovations. by technique of HIS stupid, selfish determination, you at the instantaneous are making a determination of your own. Your determination is to both have a non violent, complication-free, straightforward marriage, and not in any respect stand for the variety of blatant dishonesty that he's shoving down your throat, or no marriage in any respect (a minimum of, no marriage to this snake.) Sweetie, he will purely smash out with this, in case you allow him. do not !! Make him see that you're done status beside him even as he's doing this (and, in all honesty, he became like this from once you've been relationship ... acceptable!?! you does not have made it onto the type of large concentration of your pre-marital counseling if there wasn't a choose ... acceptable? probability is you became hoping he may change once you receive married ... yet as you're gaining expertise of, you won't be able to change someone! Who they are on the day you marry them, is who they'll be once you marry them. with any success, you received't make this mistake back, and that i in actual actuality wish that you have not any youthful ones yet who've to undergo a divorce ... because obviously you won't be able to trust this guy anymore, and devoid of trust, what do you've??? *large hug* and best of success to you
2016-11-26 20:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If She Is Your Ex, Then Why Do You Care? If She Wants To Be With Him, Then Just Let Her Be. I Understand That You Still Care For Her & Everything, But It's Not Worth It...
2007-02-09 16:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask this question? You need to find a new girlfriend and make your current your ex. There is no reason they should be spending time with each other unless they still have feelings for each other. If that's the case, she shouldn't be with you anyway. She should be taking time to evaluate her feelings. Either way, I suggest looking for a girl who will devote her time and attention to you. Not to mention her affections. This one isn't worth it.
2007-02-09 16:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its your ex...then let go. She is obviously back with her former lover. Unless you are with her and you are willing to have open relationship with other people. You don't say if your with her or not, if she is your EX and I'm assuming your not together anymore why does it matter?
2007-02-09 16:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, didn't you just answer your own question?!!
here let me spell it out for you
N-O W-A-Y !!!!!
She is totally trying to either pull one over on you, or trying to stay friends by lying to not hurt you.
If you want the truth, just ask her, say I value our friendship.... but I need to know the truth so that I can move on and we can have a real friendship with each other, no lies.
You have to mean this too..... Don't ask if you're not ready to hear the truth. Besides you should be over her anyhow. she's out having unprotected sex.. DUH.
2007-02-09 16:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not trust her, she being greedy she really wants to be with both of you be careful . She has no respect for you someone who had respect for you would not be visiting her ex . I think she want him back and she just attach to you she does not want to hurt you but what she does not realize she already has.
2007-02-09 18:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anastasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh well if she admitted already to having sex with him doesn't that mean you can't trust her. I don't really get what the confusion is, you got your answer when she told you that.
2007-02-09 16:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your EX and her "former lover" are now "current lovers"
2007-02-09 16:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everything is all in front of you..what you have said apparently goes to show that she's more than just friends with him..if she can do stuff like that with him what makes you confident she wont do it with anyone else..choose carefully who you want to trust cuz not everyone is what they try to be
2007-02-09 16:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tidus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋