2007-02-09 16:10:14 · 10 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hummm. My husband and I were not friends first we were just a toy for each other. It was what it was. Sex that was it. We had scheduled nights. Dated and did what we wanted. 11 yrs later we ended up married. Somewhere along the way something changed. I can't say it is love but we are comfortable together.
Can it happen? Yes with the right people. Just not most.
2007-02-09 16:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like in those situation one will develope a stronger feeling than the other,most of the time ,but I am shure it would be possible for both to become totally in love.
My personal expeiences no,and I have been on both ends, the one in love and the one that doesnt feel it like the other.
But maybe I just suck at love.
And just to make shure were all on the same page I am talking about women friends.
2007-02-09 16:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do. When their feelings are consummated between the sheets, they tend to blend sex and love. If the woman feels the same way then all is more than well.
If the woman does not want the love, but only sex. she may can the whole thing. At this point they do what they don't want to do, but do it so well--they break your heart.
Friends with benefits relationships are progressive. They lead to love.
2007-02-09 16:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my g/f was friends w/benifits and we fell in love together we have been together for 6years now and thinking of getting married
2007-02-09 16:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the pal-zone... prefer i did no longer have adventure right here... two times, as quickly as with a alluring Irish-Filipino chick, that used to cry on my shoulder and used to snatch my crotch areas... yet she hooked lower back up together with her shizhead boyfriend, in the previous it became genuine attempting to ask her out... yeah, that sucked... My different time...nicely, i assume it would not count huge form as adventure, simply by fact a woman and grew to alter into truly close, and that i fell for her, and that i'm particular she fell for me. the priority. She became my ultimate pal's lady pal. She then dumped him and grew to alter into extra flirty to me... which became purely... great... I persisted putting out together with her for some months, and fell extra durable each and every day... yet i became 0.5-way worried (as i've got dated yet by no ability had "fallen") and that i did no longer prefer to try this to my ultimate-pal, that noted how plenty he ignored her on a regular basis... interior the top it became like we've been an unofficial couple as quickly as we've been collectively (no actual touch *sobs*) which became ok, simply by fact i began out putting out with a different crowd on the section. She admitted she enjoyed me when I went to varsity 2 weeks in the previous she did, a factor the place i became so excited to fulfill women i'd desire to actual connect with, so it ruined my potentialities for some weeks. and she or he would constantly call me, text fabric me, etc... It became tough, yet all I did became admit I felt further. After she went to college she grew to alter into busy too, so the contacting slowly dissipated, yet she'd call approximately as quickly as a week. Then some months later she reported a guy became asking her out, and that i reported, "is he severe high quality?" She reported he became, so I informed her to this factor him... after some months she referred to as lower back and informed me she dumped him... now i'm no longer a genius yet while a woman falls out of touch and then tells you she's single... yet i became at a stay overall performance together with her ex... yeah... the two way it may no longer have worked, she's a severe Christian (weekly Bible fees as facebook statuses) and her mom is a freak that she obeys. She became a lovable petite redhead, which i've got had a weak spot for considering i became 4...
2016-09-28 21:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...sorry. They usually fall in love with the other girl they are wining and dining who isn't giving it up.
2007-02-09 16:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry i dont think so, wants your a friend with "benefits" that's all you will ever be.
2007-02-09 16:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by CurlySue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea....that occasionally happens from time to time....one individual attains feelings for the other and it all goes uphill/downhill from there
2007-02-09 16:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by blibit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of that happening
2007-02-09 16:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Nette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep...and it hurts worse than the ex-wife leaving when they dump you. sigh
2007-02-09 16:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by teeyodi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋