Okay, say your girl girlfriend cheated on you just because she was bored. But, she said she stopped it before anything happened. Would you believe her or not?
2007-02-09 16:00:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you belive her? what was she thinking in the first place. think about it........
2007-02-09 16:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she thought about it, you need to think about trusting her. Being bored is not an excuse to cheat. If she's bored or unhappy she should tell you and maybe you and her can work it out . Try and do different things together, so that she doesn't feel bored. And if that don't work then I say rethink your relationship with her. Because if she becomes bored again, is she going to cheat on you for real. And do you want to take that chance,you deserve to be with someone you can trust, if you don't have trust in a relationship , you don't have one. Good luck
2007-02-10 00:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fine so she stopped it...;) regardless she's curious...and you know...I think you are too... relationships are about exploring other people and their feelings---as well as your own and how you feel when they do certain things. You learn from these 'happenings' and decide...f#@k that kinda b.s./// I dont need this...etc. You realize the extreme that your loved one is willing to consider and then you reflect....and think and decide what you really want. Of course the familiar (your g-friend) is the easiest thing to go with...but there are other options...BUT its random....you never know what you're gonna get* maybe a girl that would do the same or worse OR a dream girl that would never do you wrong... In the end its all about what you can deal with, live with and STILL BE HAPPY;)....and if you are a good guy...then u should have NO worries about finding the kind of gal you like...
2007-02-10 00:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Waiting to Scream* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if she thinks that I am boring then well I think that there is no reason that she and I have to be together and if she is my girl she would definatly tell me wether she is bord or not I am not something to sit down waiting for her while she goes out and does what ever she wants. I mean it really deepends what is your realation ship at are you deep or you are just on top of things say as just gif and BF. if you are just then well I would deffinatly wouldn't care cause I would have done the same thing and show her that she was wrong. But if we were deeper then this is a big insult so the thing "US" would no longer be there. For good
2007-02-10 00:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she was bored???? uhm.... even if she supposedly stopped before anything serious happened, she used BOREDOM as a valid excuse for cheating on you. find someone else.
2007-02-10 00:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...nope! Are ya ever gonna be able to say you trust this person, I think not, If she does this cause she's bored what is she gonna do if she ever gets tempted??
2007-02-10 00:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by TriciaC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's that bored with you, lose her...she's gonna do it again the next time she gets bored...she could find something to do with herself besides cheating on you...don't play the fool and go back.
Just get away...
2007-02-10 00:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not rele girls are bitches.... lol sorry but its true even though i am one but yeaa alot of girls are twofaced.. u cud probly give her one more chance and if she screws up again
u kick her to the side and get urself a new girl
2007-02-10 00:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by chicka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes bored with you already... wait a few years...
2007-02-10 00:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by rachelelizabeth_organization 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her
2007-02-10 00:06:11 · answer #10 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋